The feeling of being in love is infectious, once you have experienced it, you will yearn for it over and over again.
Love is something most people spend a good part of their lives searching for. The feeling of being in love is infectious, once you have experienced it, you will yearn for it over and over again. It is a feeling like no other: it is affectionate, passionate, emotional, complex, challenging, and rewarding.
The thing about love is that sometimes it is meant to stay, and sometimes it is just meant to teach you something. That line is easily blurred, and we want to make sure that when you have found that fire burning love that speaks to your soul, that you never let it go. Here are fourteen reasons why she is the one for you.
She is always a good time.
It does not matter if you are watching a movie on the couch or on a vacation in Mexico, you always have fun with her. She is loved for her carefree attitude and her “everyone is invited” motto. She is effortless to be around, and your friends and family always beg you to bring her with you.
She shows you a side of yourself you did not know was there.
You become more of a man when you are around her. She challenges you to step outside of your comfort zone and try new things with her. You wake up each day on a mission to better yourself because she has shown you how good it feels to be moving forward.
The things that are important to you are important to her.
She may not understand why something is important to you, but she understands that it is important to you and that is enough for her. She may not be a football fan but she’ll join you on the couch with a beer and cheer on your NFL team. Some of the things you love she may not be interested in sharing together, but she is never going to tell you to stop doing it.
She respects your bro time.
Guys night out? No problem. She understands the importance of friendship and nurturing those friendships. Even if girls night and guys night do not end up falling on the same day of the week, she makes sure it is a priority for the both of you.
She is your number one fan.
You have goals, dreams, and ambitions. She does not want to get in the way of that. She believes that anything you set your mind to, you can accomplish. Above friends, family, or anyone else, you know that you come first. She may not always agree with you but you know she always has you no matter what. She wants to go out and conquer the world together.
She loves you for your faults.
She does not expect perfection from you. She understands the things that are not perfect about you make you who you are, and she loves you for that. You can let down every wall around her and know that you are safe.
She owns who she is.
She embraces her own imperfections and puts it all on the table. She does not compete with other women, she supports them. With her, what you see is what you get, she is always same consistent person. You highly respect her for that, and so does everyone else. She has needs and she expresses them. You like that. She does not expect anything from you that she does not offer herself.
The sex is incredible.
Her body is a wonderland. When the two of you collide, it is like the 4th of July, sparks are flying everywhere. Just the feeling of her skin takes you to a place you have never been before, and a place you never want to leave.
She surprises you.
Tickets to your favorite baseball team show up at your office with a note that says, “Have fun with the boys”. She plans date night and takes you to your favorite restaurant. If it has been a stressful week, she will break out the oil and give you a massage. Her hands may be tiny, but her touch is enough to relieve your stress.
She has dreams and goals.
You love her drive and her follow through to make things happen. She is ambitious and not willing to settle for anything less than the best. She loves when you wine and dine her, and treat her like a queen, but you know she can live without you. Her independence is incredibly sexy and you have learned that you would rather her want you than need you.
She meets you in the middle.
Women like to have their cake and eat it too. She does not always have to have it her way. You love that she puts her foot down when she is passionate about something and you support that, she does the same for you.
She can bro it out.
She will put on a jersey and a ball cap and head to the pub with you and the boys to watch the game. You love even more that she is not just there, she is present in the moment and chats it up with your boys on their level. Even better, she understands male humor and can participate in it. She thinks she’s funny and you love it.
She is intelligent.
We are not talking about book smart here. She is witty and bold. She challenges you without having to prove her point. She can think and speak on her feet in any situation and you love that she is never caught off guard. She captivates a room with her smile and follows through with the brains to back it up.
She trusts you.
She never questions your intentions or your judgments. You can forget to text her at work because you were busy, and she is not calling you every fifteen times to see why you are not thinking about her. You can plan a weekend getaway with the guys, and she buys you a new tank top to make sure you look good. She believes in what you say and what you do because she is confident in her part in the relationship.
These fourteen things should tell you that you are one lucky guy, and you have found your perfect match.
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