
Now I know what you’re going to say: another blog with the same qualities-that-women-find-attractive title. But hear me out.
There are a lot of masculine qualities a man can have; I mean, you can name a 100 of them yourself, but besides those, there are some subtle traits that even we don’t even think of as masculine or attractive but they are.
I’m writing this from my personal experience. Over the period, my girlfriend has showered me with compliments over these traits, which she finds extremely manly and attractive, and many of you female audience members would agree with her.
So men, be prepared and get ready to learn from my experience, which I’m about to share with you. It doesn’t matter if you’re finding your soulmate or you’re in a relationship or you’re a husband; these traits are there for you to keep your relationship in the honeymoon period till you grow old together.
1. Focus/ Undivided Attention-
One day my girlfriend and I were at my place just hanging out. I wanted to cook something for her, so I decided to make garlic bread.
So I made it, and we devoured it like we were hungry for like a year. After that she said, Omkar, I’ve observed something today.
I was like, What’s that?
She said, When you cook, you’re so focused, and you’re fully into it. It doesn’t matter what’s happening around you; your sole focus is on the thing that you’re doing, and I find it immensely sexy.
I was so delighted and proud of myself that such a subtle thing could be so damn attractive.
The point is this doesn’t just apply to cooking. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, but what matters is how much devotion and focus you’re doing it with.
This trait gives a sense of security, solace, and comfort to your woman that he’ll do everything with such devotion. Every damn thing. And that’s sexy.
2. Just do it-
Don’t say anything; just do.
Know her schedule and plan your things accordingly. If she’s free for some time, then go meet her if that fits in your schedule.
Women need your time. Whether it’s 10 minutes or 10 hours, it doesn’t matter. Because time is the most precious thing you can give, right?
When you do things without her telling you to JACKPOT, you’ll never lose that girl ever in your life.
Whatever comes to your mind, if you see a purse online or a nice pair of earrings or whatever and you think that this’ll definitely suit my girl, then don’t just keep thinking; order it straight to her address or gift it to her personally. After that, ask her from deep within your heart if she loved it or not.
If yes, then it’s a win, and if no, then you’ll order something else, which she’ll definitely like, but at least you tried, and that’s all that matters. So again, win.
And by the way, let me tell you, surprise gifts always work.
3. Don’t Be Her Google All The Time-
Sometimes women just want someone who’ll listen to them without giving any judgements, comments or solutions.
Just Listen. That’s it.
If she asks you what should I do? or How shall I tackle it? only then should you open your mouth.
Otherwise just order or make her favourite food and baby her till she’s okay.
Most of the time she knows what to do as she herself is in the situation and you’re not. All she needs is care and comfort.
So ignore logic for now the same way Michael ignores Toby.
4. Remembering Things-
If my girl were to see this topic, she’d definitely look at me with a satirical smirk and say, Look who’s talking.
I really suck at this. I don’t even remember something that she told me a day or two before. That’s not something to be proud of, of course, but I’m just saying. (This is my reply to her, by the way. 😉)
But yeah, I’m improving little by little, and she knows that, so now I’m out of her crosshairs. (Phewwww)
So the point is to remember everything about her. EVERYTHING.
And by everything, I mean when did she do her nails, which color she applied, when did she shampoo her hair last time, what’s the birthdate of her parents, etc., etc., and the list goes on.
If something is even slightly related to her, yes, I repeat slightly, then you should remember that.
Men, please do take this point seriously. I’m not kidding here; this is as important as looking at your stocks or keeping yourself updated with current affairs.
Don’t worry; I just saved you from some guilty dinner outings, culpable bouquets, and unlimited sorries.
And all the best to all the men out there.💪
To my female audience, Do you agree with these? If these are more unsual traits then let me know in the comments below.
Thank you for reading.
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