Everyone has a loving or challenging relationship memory. While some of them do not go well no matter how hard they try, some of them progress very well in their relationships
Well, wouldn’t you want your relationship to be good too? What caused the problem?
Here I will avoid the spontaneous as much as possible and explain what should be in a healthy relationship. If these steps are followed and respected by both parties, your relationship will become very good.
So what are the main rules that should be in a relationship?
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Have a Hobby That You Do Together While Having Fun
Building a life together is a beautiful dream, but it’s up to you to make it fun.
After boring and spontaneous days, you can get bored of the relationship or turn to other things. The best way to prevent this is to have a nice hobby that you do together. For example, you can enroll in a dance class together. Just imagine how it would be like to dance with your lover on a beautiful evening. Or you can go to the gym together and open the doors to a healthier life.
The important thing is to make the time you spend together better quality.
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Make Time to Go on Vacation Together
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Work, work, work how far.
Everyone needs a vacation now and then. If you do this holiday with your lover, wouldn’t you accumulate amazingly beautiful memories? A holiday plan away from the noise and busyness of the city will both help you clear your mind and add some color to your sexual life. The suggestion is from me, it’s up to you to do it. 🙂
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Respect Each Other’s Space
This rule is by far one of the most important.
Look, nobody likes a sticky relationship. Everyone wants their own private time sometimes. Listening to one’s head or spending free time is a human need. Avoid trying to be together every minute. Respect your partner’s space. In this way, the relationship will never be tiring. Otherwise, your lover will always feel the need to take care of you and this will tire him out.
Being tired means that he/she is away from you. Be careful, I say.
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Do Not Go to Bed Angry With Each Other
Everyone fights now and then. Discussions lay a healthy foundation in relationships. But it is useful not to prolong any subject. Don’t listen to your friends and try to creep or torment your lover. If there is a problem like mature people, talk and settle it. If there is a problem that you cannot solve, you will leave anyway, but if it is a situation that can be forgiven, it is useful not to prolong it. I think everyone would prefer to cuddle and sleep with their loved ones, rather than sleep nervously separately.
Am I right?
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Don’t Forget to Say “I Love You” to Each Other Every Day
Everyone wants to hear from their lover that you are valuable to them. Show or tell him how much you value him when you go to work in the morning or have dinner in the evening. Men and women like this a lot.
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Have Independent Lives From Each Other
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Now and then we like to go out with our friends, boys or girls. Meeting new people, tasting new pleasures. If your lover is with you every minute while doing these, it can tire you a little. You must live different lives. When you come home, your lives will merge, but your daily life will be different, which will give you a more enjoyable relationship.
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Support Each Other’s Dreams
Unfortunately, one of the biggest problems I have observed in relationships is that one person does not help the other. She is afraid that her lover will leave her when she is successful or that the order will change. But this should not be so. The purpose of the relationship is to rise together. If your lover is working hard for something, you should help with whatever you can. Love is such a thing.
Final Thoughts
You have to make an effort to share a life with your lover. No beauty in life comes easy. I tried to explain certain rules here. I hope these rules make your life better. Love multiplies when shared, it multiplies with laughter, don’t forget that.
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