
Ernest Hemingway’s Fist
It held his pen,
It held his scars,
It held his rage,
It hid his horrors.
It held his earnestness,
It held his flaws,
It held his fishing rod,
It hid his impotence.
It held his power,
It held his prick,
It held his need to cheat,
It hid his dread of death.
It held his blood,
It held his brutality,
It held the rifle
that hid his regal, ruined face.
Fitzgerald’s Last Tonic
Green like that light or a dying lime,
air-dried after the ice has evaporated,
purpose served, the bar emptied, hope
fulfilled or denied, story of your life.
Green with envy of those unlived lives:
muddied cleats from a rugby match, raw
skin in winter, pub crawls and last calls,
loving, fighting, or finally falling asleep.
Indulging if you’re thirsty or the world is
opening up—like a woman’s legs or fortune
on the half-shell; closing quick and leaving
a smell that makes you sick and, finally, spent.
The spirit dies but the spirits never lie to you
unless you let them, suspecting that first sip
should’ve been the final one, that you’ll drown
in a bottle, dead but still desperate for a drink.
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