We continue our series on the deeper meaning of the Game of Thrones house symbols with a look at the House Bolton.
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Works Cited & Consulted:
* Martin, George R.R. “A Song of Ice and Fire.” Bantam Books.
* freeguess. “An Analysis of House Words.” /r/asoiaf on Reddit, 5 Jan. 2013.
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[If you think this has a happy ending, you haven’t been paying attention.]
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The Bolton sigil is a red flayed body upside-down, outlined by a white X, on a black field
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The flayed man encapsulates the Boltons’ ruling style: threatening and truly evil,
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they don’t care about loyalty, alliances, or winning hearts and minds.
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They dominate through intimidation and terror.
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As the sigil boasts, the house is infamous for its centuries-old practice of torturing
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and flaying their enemies, and the fact that they put this on their sigil reveals how
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proud they are of their ability to inflict physical and psychological torture.
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It’s hard to claim the superlative of the most despicable character in Game of Thrones
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— the skeevy Walder Frey, and the abusive Joffrey Baratheon, come to mind.
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But the character that can arguably put them all to shame is Ramsay Bolton, bastard of
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Roose Bolton, who resided at the Dreadfort in the North.
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Born as a product of rape, the violent, twisted Ramsay is ultimately the demise of his house
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— he murders his father and feeds his stepmother and infant brother to his hounds, only to
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be devoured by those same hounds after finally having trained Sansa to master his own brand
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of cruelty.
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[They’re loyal beasts.]
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[They were. Now they’re starving.]
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But while Ramsay stands out as a villain, it seems to run in his family — the Boltons
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inherit cruelty both in nature and in nurture.
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Ramsay’s father, Roose, is ruthless, but in a more cool and calculated way.
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So the cruelty of the Boltons may run through Ramsay’s veins — his mother claimed he
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was angry and problematic as a child.
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But Ramsay’s cruelty also seems to be a product of his upbringing by a servant named
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Reek who raised him and corrupted him. Ramsay later gives his captive Theon Greyjoy same name.
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[What is your name?1?]
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[Reek.]
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Reek taught Ramsay to rape and kill the girls he had crushes on in his childhood.
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And since Reek never had any proper arms training, he may also have been responsible for Ramsay’s overly
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aggressive style of swordsmanship.
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Before the events we see in the show, Roose had a legitimate young son, Domeric, who was
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considered pleasant by the Northerners, but this amicable side of the Bolton family was
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short lived. Ramsay poisoned his half brother out of jealousy.
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While the Northerners are relieved to know that House Bolton is now wiped out, its memory
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lives on in the abuse that is never truly over for its victims.
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And as we see these characters deal with their lingering trauma, House Bolton makes us question
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how abusive behavior is learned, imparted and continued over generations, far outliving
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the original perpetrators.
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[And you were so beautiful in your white wedding dress.]
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[I have to go back inside Bran.]
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The Boltons’ disturbingly interesting storylines show that while we’re horrified by these
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practices, they can also be grotesquely fascinating to watch.
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Most characters on Game of Thrones live in the grey zone, pulled between the
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good and bad within themselves, but the Boltons and their symbols represent a willing embrace
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of total evil, the absence of human empathy, and a learned violent cruelty that humans are unfortunately
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capable of.
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House Bolton has two mottos: the official “Our Blades are Sharp” is already pretty
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menacing, but this informs the darker unofficial motto used most by Roose Bolton:
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“A Naked Man Has Few Secrets; A Flayed Man, None.”
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Throughout their history, the Boltons have
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passed down a sharp, thin knife used for flaying, instead of a Valyrian great sword like some other Houses.
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While their blades are sharp, their boasting about it illustrates how their words and
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mind games are equally sharp, disturbing weapons.
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The Boltons revel in the rumors that they wore their skin of their enemies as cloaks
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They believe fear and terror are as effective as pure might and power.
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These rumors, like the rumors of the Targaryen dragons, elevate the Boltons to an other-than-human
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level: As a satanic myth that evokes dread, whereas the otherworldly Targaryens
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inspire awe, as well as fear.
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Their cruel abuse is psychological as much as physical, as we can see in the way Ramsay
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terrorizes Theon, turning him into Reek, a shell of a man. As well as Sansa, who has already
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endured the brutality of King Joffrey but comes to see that Ramsay is a whole other
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level of evil.
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The psychological taunting is clearly seen in the prelude to the Battle of the Bastards:
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flayed men on burning X’s psych out the Stark men, and Ramsay
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uses Jon’s own brother as a trap.
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[Laymen of House Bolton. Too gruesome for my taste.]
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The House Bolton sigil contains red, white and black.
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Their red is ruthless and bloodthirsty.
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The color also signifies determination and ambition — the Boltons were tired of living
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under Stark rule and resolved to take the North.
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White, while it can be clean and pure, is here sterile and emotionless — an absence
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of human warmth and empathy.
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In the books, the background of the sigil is pink, evoking imagery of peeled skin, but
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the show changed the backdrop of the sigil to black, signifying bottomless terror — dark
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as the petrifying rumors that surround the Bolton family.
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While each of these colors can have other meanings, taken together red, white and black
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evoke hardness and violence, a total lack of human softness and empathy –embodying
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that what’s so scary about the Boltons is that human feeling is entirely missing from them.
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[He’s your brother.]
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[I preferred being an only child.]
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Instead of a traditional animal, the Bolton sigil features a flayed man.
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The fact that it turns a tortured human being into an animal-like prize underlines the Boltons’
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lack of respect for human dignity.
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They view people as beasts to be degraded, which in turn reveals that the Boltons themselves
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are not human, but a perverse imitation of man.
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Instead of boasting about their noble strengths, their sigil boasts their willingness
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to commit extreme acts of violence and torture.
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So this sigil is clearly designed to evoke terror in their enemies.
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The Boltons get inside their enemies heads with the idea that they won’t just kill
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you; they’ll subject you to far, far worse.
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The Bolton’s stronghold, the Dreadfort, received its name from the torture that occurred
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there at the hands of the Boltons. It was rumored that the flayed skins hung on display
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at the castle.
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Structurally unimpressive, the fort is painted flesh pink and decorated with scratch
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marks and brown dried blood — additions that visualize the flayed man of their sigil in
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the architecture, and serve as another tool for the Boltons’ psychological terror.
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Choosing to embrace the flayed man of their sigil is also a defiant message that the Boltons
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won’t obey the laws of their day.
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When the Boltons bent the knee to the Starks, they promised to cease the flaying practice,
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as is was outlawed in the North by Ned Stark.
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But they don’t honor this pledge.
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Roose defends his family’s tradition of skinning their enemies alive:
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[We’re not torturing them.]
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[The high road is very pretty. But you’ll have a hard time marching your army down it.]
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Roose also continues the practice of the first night, an outlawed marriage tradition where
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the lord or king of a region claims the right to have sex with a commoner or peasant bride
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on her wedding night. You probably remember this from Braveheart. It’s a practice that may have some
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historical basis in medieval Europe, though it’s not verified.
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[This marriage by taking the bride into my bed on the first night of her union.]
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Roose’s first night practice drove commoners to marry in secret — Ramsay’s
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birth mother and her husband, a miller, were one such secretly married couple.
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On finding out, Roose hung the miller and raped Ramsay’s mother, resulting in Ramsay’s
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conception.
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The Boltons’ insistence on continuing these brutal outlawed practices shows their refusal to
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limit their sadism, their insubordination to the Starks’ authority, and why they’re
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despised in the North.
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Deeming themselves the Red Kings of Dreadfort, House Bolton has struggled with House Stark
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for power over the North for centuries.
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The feud between the Boltons and the Starks culminated in one of the most
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beautiful war scenes in television history — the Battle of the Bastards in Season 6.
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The significance of the battle derives from these two very different bastards of the North.
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Ramsay, the legitimized bastard heir of House Bolton, was raised without love or respect. His
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father paid his mother to conceal his true parentage.
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Jon, though never legitimized and hated by Catelyn, was raised as a Stark boy,
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alongside the other Stark children.
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The battle speaks to each character’s true nature — Ramsay uses tactical strategy and
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cruel but effective traps, caring nothing about appearing noble or honorable, observing
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no rules of decency.
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Yet his battle strategy is smart and sound, and echoes successes by great generals in history.
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Jon fights with heart and honor, immersed in the middle of the fight with his men, but
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nonetheless this bravery makes him Ramsay’s pawn, until Sansa — who has learned a thing
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or two from her abusive husband, and knows that Jon will do exactly what Ramsay wants
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him to do
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— calls on Littlefinger’s Knights of the Veil and rescues the day.
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While the Boltons are now extinct, we see the impact of their torture on the characters
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that remain.
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Theon is shaped by the trauma of Ramsay’s abuse, displaying signs of PTSD.
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Sansa carries the memory with her, and seems to have reacted to her experiences
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by making herself more cunning.
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cynical and hard.
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She masters Ramsay’s psychological torture and turns it back on him:
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[Your House will disappear. Your name will disappear. All memory of you will disappear.]
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And she even turns his hounds against him, getting sweet revenge.
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Yet while this satisfying moment proves Sansa has the intelligence and experience to beat Ramsey
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at his own game, cunning, what exactly Sansa has learned from Ramsay, or will internalize from her abuse
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long-term, may have a more troubling answer.
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[I’m sorry for all that’s happened to you.]
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And as we watch Sansa and Theon emerge from their time in tortured captivity, we see that
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the true legacy of the Boltons is still alive in the evil sadist abuse and fear that they
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have spread for centuries.
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[My name is….Reek.]
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