
Every long journeys begins with a step.
Just like that!
Now that you have met or seen a woman you like and you want to take things to the next level with her by initiating a conversation.
Trying to know her to see if your goals and interests align.
Unfortunately, except you’re among the few alpha men out there, you might struggle at this phase.
Many men struggle when it comes to initiating conversations with beautiful women they meet, for this reason some men that are at marriageable ages are still single!
Some men even resort to using pickup lines. Pick up lines are good, but what happens if one forgets his lines in the presence of the woman?
He’ll look like a big fool right?
I have good news for you today. In this article I’m going to, without holding anything back, teach you and guide you on how to initiate conversation with any woman, either in a bar, school or restaurant or any other place you guys’ paths cross. And there will be few video demonstrations too:
1. Shift your Mindset
Having conversation with any woman implies you first have a mindset shift that’s she’s a woman, despite being beautiful, seemingly faultless and spotless.
This gives you the confidence to talk to her without the fear of making mistakes or looking silly. You just need to respect, don’t start thinking she’s some mystical being.
2. Start with a Friendly Greeting
Starting a conversation always starts with greetings. This doesn’t have to be complicated, say simple “Hello”, “Hi”, “How are you doing”. Just keep it simple, warm and acceptable that’s all. Below is the video of how this works:
Video Credit to @Ayokiss on YouTube
3. Use Contextual Opener
One of the best ways to start a conversation with a woman is to use the context or situation as leverage. Where you guys meet, the situation you’re or she’s, the weather etc. For example:
- If you meet her at the restaurant let your contextual openers be about the taste of the food at the restaurant
- If it’s at a coffee shop make it about the coffee.
- If it’s at a bookstore or library, make it about books of authors.
- If it’s at a Cinema, make it about movies.
These openers are simple, light and engaging making it easy for both parties to find a common ground.
Watch the video below to see how to use this
Video Credit to @Ayokiss on YouTube
4. Use Humor
You don’t need to worry about being funny or not. Just be sincere and authentic. The power of humor when it comes to disarming women while initiating talks is great. Not only does it serve as an ice breaker, it also nails you to the mind of the woman, if used correctly.
Just keep it light, sincere and playful, you don’t have to be a comedian. You may use her dressing, looks or context or situation as the basis of your humor.
Video Credit to @Ayokiss on YouTube
In Conclusion
Stop overworking yourself!
Women also want you to talk to them. They are expecting you!
Just be brave, bold and authentic. Don’t worry too much about what to say. Just focus on you and you alone. If she likes you fine, if she doesn’t, move to the next woman, there are many women to choose from.
I’m certain If you follow the tips I provided here, your approach to women will be simpler and worthy of being remembered.
Remember, your confidence and authenticity are your most charming weapons. Wear them responsibly and approach that woman Today!.
To your dating success!
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N.B the credits of the videos in this post goes to @Ayokiss via YouTube. Kindly follow him and watch his videos.
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