How to Use Hand Gestures to Change How Women Perceive You

Charisma isn’t just what you say, how you say it is also important.

In the world of dating, sometimes things we look down on might be key to unlocking what we want, need or desire.

Hand gestures are strangely one of such.

Imagine two men having a conversation with a woman. One poses, with his hands in his pockets as he’s talking. And the other naturally emphasizes every point with gestures and subtle and deliberate movements.

Who among them do you think looks attractive the most?

The answer is obvious, right?

Whether you are leading a meeting, giving a speech or simply having a one on one conversation, hand gestures are a powerful tool.

The Science Behind Hand Gestures and Charisma

Many studies have shown hand gestures influence the way people who use them are perceived. They are seen as more likable, trustworthy, competent and interesting.

According to research from Princeton University, people who use hand gestures while talking are seen as attractive and charismatic.

Also, a research from Vanessa Van Edwards, shows that the most loved and popular speakers throughout the world averagely use 465 hand gestures in less than 20 minutes.

This shows hand gestures makes the speakers interesting, it keeps the message reinforced and the person or people being spoken to engaged.

Here’s the reason you should start using hand gestures:

1. Increases communication clarity because hand gestures serve as visual aids.

2. It makes you appear more confident and engaging and your presence will be imposive

3. Increases emotional connection by making you expressive and passionate.

4. It makes you more persuasive because you are seen as authentic and realistic.

5. Makes you more relatable, open, warm and approachable.

Final Thoughts

Mastering the use of hand gestures is simple and effective. It especially help men to solve some popular challenges that come with dating.

Challenges like:

Lack of Confident
Lack of engagement
Inability to be persuasive and be charismatic.

The next time you want to talk to a new woman, be mindful of the usage of your hands. Who knows, they might be key to leaving a lasting impression or the magic wand that transform your dating life.

Thanks for reading

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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