A happy married life is therapeutic.
You will have better mental health.
Life is stressful.
And in case you don’t know, stress is a disease. Especially prolonged exposure to stress. It could even result in hospital admission and some psychiatric issues.
But that is where a committed partner comes in. He is a stress reliever.
He is the man who understands your schedule and does his best to make life less stressful for you. The day he notices that you’re exhausted, he steps into the situation and helps you with the house chores, do the dishes, and prepare your favorite meal, so that you can rest well and be refreshed for the next day.
The reverse is the case for a partner who is not committed. He is rather all about himself and little to nothing about you.
Ending up with such a partner will make your life worse. You may get home and see him on his phone while there are dirty plates all over the sink. Worst still there is no food in the kitchen for you to eat and he is completely unbothered about it.
A committed man is a life-saver.
If a man does these three things without you asking him, then he is the kind of man you should plan to build a family with.
1. He Notices When You’re Having A Bad Day From Your Voice
There is no mind reader alive.
Nobody can really know what you’re going through unless you tell them.
But there is a way someone will be so committed to you that it seems as though they are mind readers. They just have a way to notice when you are having a bad day and immediately come to your rescue.
Just by hearing your voice, they can tell whether you’re having a bad day.
It takes someone committed to you to pay that level of attention to pick those signals of the mind.
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2. They Are Generous Even With The Little They Have
Anybody can support you financially when they have abundance. But it takes a committed man to be generous out of the little he has. It means that he considers you as much as he takes himself. He is not selfish. He has your good intentions at heart and sees you in his future.
That is the man who will give anything to ensure your success, he can go any mile to ensure you have the best of life.
Not all giving is the same.
If it is not from abundance, that is called sacrifice. And any man who makes sacrifices for you is actually committed. He takes you seriously.
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3. Uses the inclusion pronouns “ We are…”, and “ Our… “
He doesn’t just use those words, he means them when he uses them.
In an era where most guys want short-term love and romance, it takes a committed man who sees you in his future to use the “inclusion pronouns”: “… our money, we need to… let’s invest into…”
If he uses those words most often, you can be sure he is not just there for fun or a short term. He is actually committed.
Take him seriously.
Look out for these signs.
If you find them in a partner, take him seriously.
They make the best life partner.
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Thanks for your time.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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