Making Love vs. F*cking Your Affair Partner

Do you have the type of affair where it’s making love?

Or fucking?

Maybe a little of both?
That’s the sweet spot, right?

There are times when you look into his eyes and see the dark passion that he needs to take you — rough and fast. Other times, you have sweet, lingering eye contact — making love and having a deep connection with each other.

Redditors responded:

“AP and I have days where we are fucking, days where we are making love, and times when we are doing both. Fucking days are normally rougher and kinkier. Ass slapping, hair pulling, ass play, with lots of grunting and dirty talk.”
“Making love is slower. We spend lots of time in positions where we are facing each other and kissing. We talk a lot about how much we care about each other and miss each other when we are apart. He usually talks about how much he loves being with me. He caresses my face and hair. We hold hands.”
“Sometimes, it is a little rougher and feels like he is scratching an animalistic need…but he is always about kissing me and making me feel wanted and taken care of.”
“We fuck, and sometimes we make love, all in the span of a couple of hours we spend together.”
“I don’t think they are necessarily mutually exclusive.”
“I love fucking my AP but making love to her is so much sweeter sometimes. There’s no rhyme or reason to it.
Things naturally progress in one of two ways. Either I’m pulling her hair, spitting in her mouth, slapping her around, and having my way with her, or I’m holding her hand, staring into her eyes, caressing her, whispering into her ear that I love her. They are both fun in their own right. We try to get some of both whenever we see each other.”
“No matter if you are doing a quick hard fuck fueled by a need to consume each other or a slow teasing lovemaking with lots of eye contact and hand holding — they both work.”

And the succinct clincher of them all:

“Love making AND a good fuck.”

Most adulterers wanted both. It wasn’t just dirty cheating sex — it had romance and passion. Most lovers like to switch it up. Experimenting in an affair is one of its unique joys.