
What Can I Do? Is Not an Assumption of Hopelessness but A Driver of Reflection and Action

But in our human realm, news reports set a very threatening tone to the day. This began at a news conference earlier in the week, when Senator Alex Padilla, Democrat from California, tried to ask a question of DT’s Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem. As he tried to take a step forward to be heard, identifying himself as a US Senator (the ranking member of the Judiciary Committee on Immigration), Noem’s security detail stopped him, shoved him to the ground, where he was handcuffed and forcibly taken from the room.
Later, the Senator explained he had repeatedly asked DHS for information on their increasingly extreme actions against immigrants but had not received answers. He said, “If this is how this administration… the DHS responds to a senator with a question, you can only imagine what they’re doing to farm workers, to cooks, to day laborers, throughout the LA community and throughout California and throughout the country.”

And on the morning of Saturday, June 14th, in their Minnesota home, Melissa Hortman, a Democratic state representative and her husband were assassinated, in a politically targeted killing. The assailant also shot a second Democratic lawmaker and his wife multiple times, but they both thankfully remain alive as of now. When DT was asked by a reporter if he would call Minnesota Governor Walz, he responded with more spite than any semblance of truly caring. “Well, it’s a terrible thing. I think he’s a terrible governor,” ABC News reported Trump said. “I think he’s a grossly incompetent person. But I may, I may call him, I may call other people too.” As of Sunday, he hadn’t called the Governor.

The events presented a dramatic contrast. The military parade celebrated not only the courage and sacrifice of soldiers, but the ego and self-centeredness of DT. In anticipation and messaging, it was frightening; but it turned out to be a sad and not well attended event.
The NO KINGS protests were attended by millions. They were both serious and fun, concerned for the rights and future for all of us⎼ compassionate yet defiant of DT’s attempts to destroy democracy, to mistreat and remove immigrants of color, and undermine any government agencies and policies that protect the well-being of the mass of citizens, like healthcare, Social Security, SNAP, and education.

A demonstration like this is like a school. Not only can we learn specific facts, (to be researched later on); but also camaraderie. Cooperation. We create a spontaneous community within a community, building each other up to discover our courage and the care to stand up, not only for our own future but for the future and present of so many others. Fear is not only a warning of perceived danger but a motivator to turn away from something. Courage, as many have said, is not about being fearless, but about acting despite or because of our fear.

There were chants, like “This is what democracy looks like.” And “we are the people we’ve been waiting for.” Millions joined in the protests and marches on this day.
Afterwards, I was reminded of a section of The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World, a record of conversations between the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu, narrated by Douglas Abrams. It was published in 2016, just before DT’s first inauguration. At one point Abrams recounts psychologist and Auschwitz survivor Edith Eva Eger remembering that those prisoners, including children, who had not learned how to save themselves or take action for their well-being, but expected others to act for them, were the first to die. I shuddered to hear that, and shudder now to think there might be a similarity with us, today. Except with us, today, we’ll all rise together, or lose our rights and humanity together. There’s no one but ourselves who will come to save us.
We’ve become so familiar with the question, What can I do? But this cannot be understood as simply expressing, certainly not as assuming, hopelessness or lack of power. It must never stop there. It must be taken in as an honest yet persistent, expanding question that drives us to discover new aspects of ourselves, new contacts with others, and new answers. That drives us to save ourselves and our world.
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