
Human beings typically have a self-image of being rational.
Having logically thought through the alternatives. They arrive at their decision. Benefits are weighed against disadvantages because this system seems to provide the correct selection.
After analyzing all possibilities, they select the one that seems to be most acceptable.
But that’s not true.
We think we are doing it logically, but we aren’t.
Most of our decisions and choices operate on autopilot. And this is why we are in this mess.
For example:
- We spend needless money on things. I spent $104 today on my gym membership-a wiser move would maybe have been to spend that on other things.
- Eating junk food and then spending on health things.
- Not saving for finals. Currently, I have no retirement savings at all.
Humans are full of contradictions. It’s not like we’re dumb or lazy.
But we are human.
From the very beginning, we are subconsciously programmed to be logical decision-makers.
Let me elaborate.
Our Brain Works on Two System
Our brains travel like a car on two different driving modes.
System 1: fast, automatic, emotional
System 2: slow, logical, and effortful
System 1 takes the larger part for most situations, although it automatically lessens its significance in life-threatening situations. System 1 effortlessly processes threats while you drive in a daze, set the ignition, and choose your breakfast.” It is like the gut feeling system.
Long division and writing essays are majorly System 2 tasks. It requires much attentiveness and energy from the brain.
Most of the time, we are exhausted, distracted, and often very easily diverted. Therefore, System 1 gets the advantage in trying to run the show. That’s when the trouble begins.
Biases: The Bugs in Your Thinking
System 1 operates at high speed through the implementation of mental shortcuts called heuristics. Such rules of thumb work most of the time, yet they fail periodically. People fail in three typical ways when they think:
- Status quo bias: We stick with defaults. If your job enrolls you in a 0% savings plan, you’ll probably leave it like that — even if you want to save
- Loss aversion: People tend to dislike losing substantially more than they enjoy winning. We refrain from selling losing stock, and we avoid new opportunities because we are afraid of potential losses.
- Present bias: People tend to select immediate gratification instead of selecting options that benefit them in the future. The decisions we make today lead to that future-you will face, including credit card debt along with additional weight and lack of emergency savings.
These traits do not represent bad behavior since they are natural human tendencies. These psychological tendencies produce problems when individuals need to make essential choices.
So how do we fix this? Enter the nudge.
A nudge represents a minor adjustment in choice presentation that facilitates right action without compulsion.
It’s not a ban. It’s not a law. It’s not a guilt trip.
The approach provides subtle guidance toward better choices. The solution to increasing fruit consumption does not work through banning cake. A simple solution to this challenge involves placing apples at eye level with cake positioned on the bottom shelf. That’s a nudge.
Why Do Nudges Work So Well?
We should revisit the brain systems discussed earlier. Nudges speak to System 1. The systems function without depending on either willpower or extensive arguments. The strategy utilizes natural human psychology to simplify better options for automatic selection.
Several actual examples illustrate this point as follows:
- The United States uses 401k auto-enrollment as a retirement savings program. Big companies have established a system that enrolls all new workers into retirement savings plans without requiring any employee action. People continue their enrollment status because they retain the option to withdraw. The implementation of this small behavioral modification achieved double the number of participants than traditional opt-in approaches did.
- Organ donation — Austria vs. Germany: Under Austria’s donation policy, everyone becomes a donor until they express their refusal to donate. Donors in Germany need to actively enroll through a signing process to support the program. Result? The donation percentage in Austria exceeds 90%, yet Germany stands at less than 15%. Same culture, different defaults.
- Healthy eating: There is an increase in healthy food selection after positioning fruits and salads at eye level while placing desserts in a less accessible location. This change was implemented without removing any food options from the menu. Children maintained their selection of options, yet better possibilities automatically became more accessible.
- Energy conservation: The Opower energy program sends customers their monthly bills together with usage comparisons against their neighbors. The average energy usage comparison made people who consumed excess energy reduce their consumption levels. No fines. Just gentle peer pressure.
- COVID-19 vaccination (text reminders in California): UCLA researchers discovered that sending a basic text message stating “A vaccine is reserved for you” boosted appointment bookings. The message contained personal language, which led people to take action.
We don’t need big lectures. We just need better design.
How to Outsmart Yourself Daily
Self-nudges are also possible…
For example,
The good choice should be the automatic selection.
Want to read more? Place your reading material next to your bed instead of keeping your mobile phone there.
Want to drink more water?
A bottle filled with water should sit on your work surface.
Create friction for bad habits.
Want to stop doomscrolling?
Remove the application from your device.
To reduce snacking. Don’t buy them.
Out of sight, out of mind.
Use reminders and cues.
Sticky notes. Phone alerts. Fridge magnets.
These devices function as reminders, which help you remember things while also guiding you toward better actions.
Divide your ambitious targets into numerous simple actions.
“Start saving” is vague.
The savings plan is simple because it states to transfer $20 into savings on Fridays.
When steps remain small, it becomes simpler to take action.
The fundamental message of Nudge reveals that understanding how people behave irrationally leads to better outcomes. It’s that irrationality is predictable. We can organize ourselves based on this prediction.
Developing environments that naturally reward positive choices represents the main lesson from Nudge.
Nudges are not manipulation.
These approaches help turn beneficial decisions into instinctive and effortless choices.
The reality reveals that we do not require additional self-control abilities.
We need better setups.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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