
Just like simple songs; direct yet bogus and unclear.
That’s what a woman is so unpredictably unique.
I always believed in the spark every woman holds. I always knew there was a thing about broken women, but this story portrayed in the series “Sistas” further proves my thoughts.
Who else is there to pull up such deep imagery and societal secret if not Tyler Perry himself?
You might not be a lover of movies. But I bet you are a lover of knowledge and pure reasoning.
After watching that series a couple of times. It finally made sense to me.
Tyler Perry had just portrayed the one secret to becoming super successful as a man.
Most highly esteemed and successful men were reformed by broken women.
The plot was between Zac and Karen;
A practical loser in life who became focused after he broke up with his long-time love (Karen).
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Who are broken women?
Permit me to express the fact that the phrase “broken women” may never be fully defined.
But yet a broken woman is one who has stood against objection in her own thoughts but yet dismayed by the general public.
It might be in love, finance, or even more importantly, life itself, and so she acts upon it.
- On the person she loves, she shows aggression and pain.
- On her finances, she shows anger and worries.
Such pain and bad reactions are just the right rhythms meant to birth some good music in the antagonist, which in this case was Zac from the series, or you, or me.
It might be surreal but look within yourself.
You will find that some of your successes have been triggered by bad occurrences, and you have unintentionally leveraged them to become better.
How can bad bear good?
When it comes to negative and positive, you will always thrive more powerfully in the positive if you have first been immersed in, and have heroically overcome, the polar opposite negative of that thing. — C. Joy Bell
That right there is how bad can give birth to some good.
If you have been immersed in the negatives for so long, you will naturally want to become better.
That is why most successful men are kids of poor or middle-class parents. They were born into the bad and ugly, that reformed their mind to source for a better life.
It’s the same with broken women (by love).
Once they have attained that stage where it’s all negative with their acclaimed man or lover, the man would mostly have no other choice than to be better.
- For the constant nagging of his broken woman.
- For the maltreatment when he was still in love with her.
- For how much hurt he had contained while they were still together.
Unfortunately, all of this is not at no cost. In most cases, the broken woman becomes much more heartbroken.
When a woman invests, she invests well.
A man could love badly, but when a woman loves, she loves pretty well.
Ditto… In the series by Tyler Perry, the antagonist (Zac), became more established and successful with the help of another woman.
She brought him close to her and then motivated him to become better, so he could go against the hatred and dismay of his former lady (Karen); a broken woman.
Little did the new woman know that she also is a broken woman making a successful man.
So is the cycle of love and success. We all derive motivation from the pains and choices of others.
- Your toxic ex who never wants to see you succeed.
- Your new girl who was heartbroken by another man.
It’s just like an overlay of earth upon one another. Broken women do make successful men.
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Brilliancy
The brilliant man’s name is Tyler Perry. One who is not shy to share the crazy ideas running in his mind.
I do not suggest you watch his movies. But get a grip on life from the stories of others, and you might just get surprised at what you’ll find out.
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Thank you so much for reading my article today. My gratitude towards you knows no bound. I will be publishing another article very soon.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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