It is often said that women are difficult to understand, but men are not inferior to women in this regard. Women are by nature more gentle, weak, and sensitive, men are known to be stronger, tougher, and rougher, but how true is this?
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Are women incomprehensible, unpredictable, or men?
In all animals, including humans, men make great efforts to obtain women, whom they regard as the purpose of life, courtship and market themselves to females; So, what happens next, why does this courting, wanting, desiring, running, making effort change?
- The gentle, romantic, courting man leaves, and a man who is overly nervous, angry, shouting, not picking up a hair in his nose arrives. The woman, convinced by the man’s courtship and opening her heart, takes care of her love for a while, struggles, turns around the man, look into his mouth, and looks for the man she first met with hope.
Here we come across two male models:
1- Somehow I achieved it, I reached my goal; The male model who lies on the relationship that doesn’t care, doesn’t care, doesn’t care, doesn’t spare time, with the thought that I don’t need love, romance, and no more dealings.
2- Men who truly love, see the truth, know the value of their spouse, but are worn out by the tiredness of life, have never tried to market themselves with exaggerated behaviors, maybe have dusty hearts, tired but trying to recover with the joy of finding love.
No matter how well-intentioned you are, no matter how well you have not lost the love inside you; A woman wants to see it, she wants to feel it, but she can’t read your brain.
It should be kept in mind that the woman in front of you may be as tired as you are.
Men who are tense because of their own tensions and problems and reflect this on their spouses, who constantly find fault and criticize. Such tension and stress will not only kill solidarity at home, tolerance in the relationship but also cause a decrease in respect and love.
Men who constantly lament, talk too much, get involved in everything, become passive, have lost their charisma and power.
No matter how much the woman stands on her feet; She wants a man who is strong, strong, romantic, interested, seeking, asking, and takes care of her problems and problems as much as her love.
It is not difficult to understand women, men behave this way because it does not work for them, and they lose what they have day by day.
Men who do not take care of themselves, do not take care of themselves and their clothing, play machismo, and do not respect their relationship. We need to make this clear. A woman can endure hunger, hard times, toughness, hard days, but never lovelessness. That way, you can lose it over time.
Look in the mirror and clarify what you want. Do you have the right to treat this woman who adds beauty to your life like this?
What binds spouses to each other is neither marriage, nor children, nor blood ties. It is a relationship based on love and respect that binds spouses to each other. Therefore, care must be taken to protect this respect and love and not to wear it out. Otherwise, there will be no relationship or marriage…
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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