
Rich people think differently; that is why they are rich, and this is not some theatrical knowledge. This is science.
To prove this, scientists scanned the brains of thousands of people and found that those who think of themselves as rich have brain changes at the biological level, and only then do these individuals actually become rich.
That means rich people think about something that changes the structure of their brain, and that is why they become rich.
When this experiment was conducted on the poor and their thinking was changed, there was a change in their brain and they started moving towards wealth, and scientists found that to do this, it is necessary to change four things.
Just four. What are those four things? Let me tell you.
In 1972, there was a psychologist at Stanford University, California, named Walter Mischel, and he did nothing strange.
They brought 4–6 year-old children into a room one by one. I placed a marshmallow in front of him and then said that I was going to go out somewhere for 15 minutes and then come back.
If you don’t eat this marshmallow in 15 minutes, I’ll come back and give you two more marshmallows.
Hidden cameras were installed in the room where these children were kept. Everything was being recorded.
Some kids ate the marshmallow in 30 seconds. Some just licked it. Some controlled themselves for 15 minutes but could not control themselves in the last minute, and about 30% of the children waited for the entire 15 minutes.
Let me tell you something shocking: Michel tracked these children for 40 years.
Those 30% children who did not eat marshmallows got better marks than others. He had better jobs. Their divorce rates were low. Their income was higher, and their overall addictions were lower.
And those 70% of the kids who couldn’t do the weights were immersed in debt, i.e., loans. He had many health problems. Their income was less than that of others, and many of them had even gone to jail. The story did not end here.
Walter put the same kids, now in their 40s, into brain scanners.
The self-controlled regions of the brain of 70% of the children who were unable to control themselves were still weak, and for the remaining 30% of the children, those same regions were stronger than others.
From this, scientists understood that if you make your thinking long-term and bring patience, then your brain actually transforms, and you start moving towards wealth.
I will give you a very simple example.
For example, suppose you think that a friend needs money quickly
I am in dire need of money.So let me take a loan. Let me finish the job quickly. Yes, I want to do business. No, no, no, but right now I need the money next month. So let me do the job. I will keep looking forward to the business.
This is called instant gratification, that I should get gratified quickly and instantly. I just want to get some dopamine and enjoy it. You have to be patient quickly.
And suppose you think that it’s okay, I will wait a little I will start an internet business. I learn the skill. So, of course, your result changes. Through this thought process, you move towards wealth or poverty.
Now we’ve all heard of Jeff Bezos. Right?
Mr. Jeff Bezos has told this thing in his interviews that before making any decision, he asks himself a question that when I am 80 years old, will I regret taking this decision or not? And they make decisions accordingly.
Like he left his multi-million dollar job and started Amazon in 1994, and you know what?
This is actually tried and tested. In my own life, when I was in 2022, I was getting done with my college. I had two options. Either I would go for a job office, or I would start my own business.
Honestly, it was very intriguing that I should do a job. Fixed income will come. All the friends are also leaving. Mass placement has taken place. But I knew one thing at that time that I did not want to live that life. I don’t want to sit in a cubicle and code.
At that time, this was the thought process, and I was like let it be. I start a business. And if I had not taken that decision, you would not be reading this story today.
Now let’s talk about its practical action steps, what you have to do practically, so that your brain actually gets rewired.
You have to Develop Patience in your career, in your professional life. You should think about what the right decision is in the long term.
Don’t think that I just have to earn money quickly. But always ask yourself what decision to take in the long term, what path to choose will be right for me.
Now, after this, in 2019, research from Harvard Business School conducted a very interesting experiment. What did he do? He did not bring 200 people with him. 100 of them were rich, and 100 were average, struggling, or poor; you can consider them.
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They were put into identical rooms where there were no hidden money-making opportunities. For example, suppose a bulletin board is put up where it is written ‘Looking for Freelancers’.
They deliberately sent their own people in and told them to go and tell their problems or ask for help from people, or they placed books where ways to earn more money were explained.
After that, a question was asked of all these people: Did you note any opportunities to make money? And the results were not shocking. More than 70% of the rich people noticed at least two opportunities, and only 18% of the poor people could notice at least one opportunity.
When the brains of these people were scanned It was understood that the opportunity-detecting part of the brain of rich people was active, whereas in the struggling people, this part of the brain was either not active at all or was much less active.
The reality is that 85% of millionaires have at least three income streams; struggling people have just one.
What do we have to do practically to rewire our brains?
You don’t have to become an opportunity detector. Now, doing this does not mean that you just keep looking for ways to earn money like crazy. That’s not what I’m saying.
We have to model Milneus What do the Milanese do?
What do successful people do? First of all, they start something to make money. Now it can be a job, it can be a business, it doesn’t matter.
First of all, money must come in predictably, and once the predictable income starts coming in, they start looking for more opportunities.
Like starting an internet business, it could be freelancing, starting an agency, blogging, dropshipping, or a creator business; anything could be possible. And they start making money from there as well.
And from here, they create another predictable income stream. Then we move ahead.
No rich man has made the mistake of starting 10 things at the same time.
Master one thing. Whether it was a job or a business, it was made predictable. Then look for opportunities, keep your mind active, grab the next opportunity, make it predictable, and then move ahead.
I’m talking about the richest person on planet Earth right now, Jeff Bezos. In 1990, he was at D.E. SHAW HEDGE FUND. He was the senior vice president there. He was earning one to two million dollars a year.
He launched Amazon in 1994. He thought, brother, I will sell books and he launched Amazon from his garage.
In 1998, Amazon expanded. He also got into music, DVDs, and electronics.
In 2000, he launched Amazon’s marketplace, where he started charging 15% commission from sellers.
In 2000, he started Blue Origin, a space company.
In 2002, he started the development of Amazon Web Services, i.e., AWS, where he thought that we would provide cloud services.
In 2005, he launched Amazon Prime. $139 Air Subscription.
In 2006, they launched AWS publicly, and AWS, Amazon Cloud Services, Web Services, currently generates 70% of Amazon’s profits, and people probably don’t even know these things.
I didn’t know either. I also came to know about it through a friend. Right?
In 2007, he launched Kindle. Right? And he started taking 30% book commission on every sale.
In 2013, he bought the Washington Post, which he bought for 250 million.
And he has been doing angel investing since 1998. Google has been an
investor in Uber and Airbnb.
And today he owns more than 400K acres of land. He is a real estate tycoon.
So this story was simple to understand. Brother, this guy mastered one thing. Was working earlier. Found an opportunity. From there came the books.
He moved beyond books and into music. In this way, we kept expanding gradually. One thing at a time, one thing sorted. Move ahead.
Now, another person has been involved in understanding the brains of rich people.
His name was Thomas Cordley, and he was a financial planner and he was interested in understanding the minds of his wealthy clients.
So he started tracking the daily habits of his 233 wealthy clients and also the habits of his non-wealthy clients.
He did it every day for 5 years and found a difference that shocked him.
Nearly 90% of his wealthy clients spent at least 30 minutes every day learning something new, and I am not talking about learning something randomly.
They used to learn something meaningful, which was relevant for them for their business or for their life, and on the other hand, more than 95% of the poor people did not learn anything new.
Let me give you another example of this. Suppose Jimmy and Sandy are friends, and they lost their jobs during the Covid lockdown.
Jimmy watches Netflix every day, and Sandy has started learning video editing.
After 9 months, Jimmy is still unemployed Cursing the market and Covid, Sandy is today earning $2500 a month editing videos for clients.
Both had 9 months. Both had the same internet. There were the same opportunities. But they made different choices, and hence their results were also different.
So what is the practical action step?
The practical action step is to set a goal. Then you have to identify what you need to learn to achieve that, and you have to learn it every day.
Learning can happen from anywhere. Like, personally, I don’t read a lot of books. I learn from AI. I have to learn something. I will go to Chat GPT. And I will exactly tell you, brother, I need this thing.
So give me the right knowledge. I will do deep research. I will learn from there.
Some people learn from podcasts. Some people learn from YouTube. You should see where you learn best from.
For Some People Is Books. Suppose you want to build a business, you want to invest, you want to get fit, whatever that is, I am not talking about random consumption.
I’m talking about target learning because people misunderstand it. People, you know, to get dopamine, brother, I am reading and learning this every day.
Brother, implement something like this, and then we will implement it from that learning. I am talking about that.
I am not talking about just increasing my knowledge.
If increasing your knowledge does not actually make you rich, then you are wasting your time.
Now that the US people were understanding the brains of the rich so much, the people of London also started doing the same, and in 2017, researchers from the London School of Economics did something very interesting.
He picked up 10,000 people from five countries and divided them into two groups: rich and poor. And asked everyone a simple question:
Why are you where you are today financially?
Do you know what the poor people replied? Poor people said that the economy is down, the family situation is not good, there are no opportunities, and the government is useless.
And do you know what the rich people said? Rich people said that I took the right decisions and remained persistent. I didn’t give up. I took responsibility for things.
Then the brains of both these groups were scanned. When the brains of the poor, i.e., those who were victimizing themselves, were scanned, it was understood that the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which is called the CEO of the brain, was not active.
And his emotional part, that is, the scared and blaming part of the brain, was quite active. And for those who took ownership, the CEO part of their brain was very active, and their emotional part, which is the part that is angry or blames, was completely down.
It makes sense that if you take ownership of your financial life, your brain will transform, and you will move towards wealth.
Now let’s talk about practical action steps.
Dude, look, you have to write down your five biggest excuses you give yourself for not being rich.
Right? And then you have to flip them. As you say, friend.
- I cannot start a business because I do not have money. So you have to flip it and say when? nobody. I start with zero investment business.
- If you say I don’t have time. No problem, I will use my travel time.
- If you say I don’t have connections. nobody. I make connections in online communities.
- If you say I don’t have the skills. nobody. I learn on YouTube.
Do this for 30 days, and your mind will actually change completely.
In this medium article, I talk to you about four studies.
These four studies found that the brains of rich people are different from the brains of struggling and poor people.
The good news is that you can make your mind like that of the rich, and when that transformation comes in your thinking, it has been practically proven that you will move towards wealth.
And if I summarize this again.
- You have to think long-term. This means that you have to make such decisions that will benefit you in the long term.
- You need to create a predictable income stream, and then you need to spot opportunities to build the next stream.
- You have to learn something every day to reach your goals. Learn as you wish.
- Always take ownership of your financial life. You have to take his lead, take full responsibility instead of blaming things around.
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