There’s a saying: “Nice Guys finish last.”
And many men tell me they see women go for assholes while nice guys aren’t chosen.
Has it happened to you?
It does NOT have to be this way.
I know because I’ve helped many men, who think of themselves as nice guys, come out ahead!
When you care for and respect women (and others) as you do, you have access to your heart in a way that some men don’t.
It’s MUCH easier to learn to inspire attraction and admiration than it is to learn to love.
One of my clients received this text the other day from a woman:
“You have two sides and I’m not sure which I like better! The one side is ambitious and strong. The other side is patient, chivalrous and gentle. That combination is incredibly hot!”
Only a man who has the heart of a “Nice Guy” can cultivate this incredible combination that women are both deeply touched and extremely aroused by!
Since I love Nice Guys I brought in THE expert on the “Nice Guy Syndrome,” Dr. Robert Glover, for a powerful Man Alive Podcast episode! Dr. Glover has helped change the lives of countless men around the world by working on himself and thousands of other men.
In this episode we covered:
- Telltale signs of the Nice Guy Syndrome, so you know if you have it
- The path to become an integrated and empowered man, who no longer needs to prove himself
- How to be powerful and honest without being selfish or an a**hole
- Ways to consciously create attraction and arousal
- How to establish your own rules, rather than follow others’
Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Man Alive is the resource for men who want more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy.
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