How many fathers would be comfortable letting their daughters play in the Lingerie Football League? I mentioned that Angela Rypien, Mark Rypien’s daughter, was following in her father’s footsteps as quarterback for the LFL’s Seattle Mist, and I think my husband’s head did a full 360. Then I mentioned that her dad had attended the first game on September 30, and he said, “What’s wrong with that guy?”
I doubt my husband is the only father that would feel this way. The strange thing is, Mark’s hands off parenting style seems to be getting a lot of approval in the media. Both daughter and father agree they haven’t really discussed if dad is comfortable with his little girl out there on the field, playing ball in her bra and panties, and he hasn’t stepped up and said, “I think this a horrible idea.”
In fact, Mark spends much time rationalizing to the media how he can sit there in the stands while lusty men cat call his daughter. He is quoted as saying:
Yeah, they’re out there in their bra and panties and they’re playing football. Once the first snap happens and they start smacking each other around, you lose sight of all of that and you’re looking at the technical aspects of the game.
I can’t be sure he really means this because later in the interview when asked if he feels there is the potential of getting in a fight with a fan, he says:
There’s no chance of [a fight] happening. One, some guy [would] probably whoop my a** out in the parking lot. What good’s that gonna do? And if I did whoop his a** in the parking lot, what good’s that gonna do? I’ll get a lawsuit against me.
I hate to point this out, but if the only thing holding a dad back from getting in a fight is a big, messy, publicized lawsuit, then you are probably holding back your true feelings about this situation.
Since when is it “bad” parenting for a dad to want to protect his daughter’s honor and propriety? Even when our children grow into young adults, it is always the father’s job to protect and care for his children.
How can a father allow his daughter to prostitute herself for a sport in front of millions of fans that calls itself “True Fantasy Football?” Yeah, I think we can all guess what the fantasy is here.
If we want our daughters to grow to feel proud of their bodies and protective of their sexuality, they first must have a strong relationship with their father or father figure. As a young girl comes of age, her father is the first man that demonstrates to her how men treat women, respect them, and honor their sexuality. If a father isn’t showing his daughter this, then who will? If a father isn’t defending this, who will? It’s part of honoring our children and our family, and it IS our job as parents.
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Megan:
Do you have any idea how much you insulted Angela Rypien? She’s an adult. What her father thinks does not matter.
“Since when is it ‘bad’ parenting for a dad to want to protect his daughter’s honor and propriety?”
This sounds like something you would read in a defense for “purity balls” or “chastity pledges,” whatever you want to call them.
“How can a father allow his daughter to prostitute herself for a sport in front of millions of fans that calls itself “True Fantasy Football?” Yeah, I think we can all guess what the fantasy is here.”
I’m surprised that you confined your criticism of Rypien to the charge of negligent, insufficient parenting. If a father enthusiastically supports his daughter’s participation in ribald, titilating activity, then the chief suspicion is that this father has an unsavory, untoward interest in his own daughter.
I don’t believe she is saying that the father should go on the field and pick his daughter up over his shoulder and storm out, or tell her what to do with her life. You people leap at any chance to bash the contributors of this website
kay, then if we’re wrong, what IS she saying? She’s been asked by several commenters and posters on this site “what would you have him do?” And so far, there’s been no response.So what do you think the author wants fathers in this position do? or did you just want another chance to appear morally superior to the rest of the commenters on this board?
You people are so fucking hostile and misguided. You read all of these articles every day just to bash the ideals behind the site you’re paying so much attention to. Fuck off and get a life.
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What really burns the feminists is, despite their relentless propaganda, there are still women who will make their own choices. Maybe the cropping of the picture conceals the armed criminals pointing loaded firearms at the women and forcing them to play. Perhaps their families are being held hostage and threatened with death if the women don’t don skimpy outfits and play American Football.
Or maybe these adults made their own decisions…I know scary thought but roll it around a bit and think on it. Its possible.
Hey, I’m a feminist, and I think the LFL is a great silliness — but I agree with those who say that a father has no business telling a grown daughter what to do. We don’t solve one oppression (sexualization) with another equally bad idea (paternalism.)
I’m a feminist and I don’t think people have a right to criticize grown adult women for inter-racial relationships, gay relationships, entering dangerous fields/military, having abortions, modeling/porn/sex work, relationships with much older men.
And yes, if my daughter were an adult and wanted to play Lingerie Football I wouldn’t give her a hard time over it. I may not fully understand the allure but if she’s happy I don’t care. As with any professional athlete, I would warn her to have a back-up plan for when her sports career is over.
This site critcizes men who are all up in their adult daughter’s personal lives. So, the GMP right answer is no.
However, the in touch with reality answer is that it doesn’t matter since an adult doesn’t need permission.
Interesting variant on the whole “patriarchy” thing – a daughter playing her dad’s position and wearing his number! But, equality has to start somewhere, I guess. It would be great if someday a daughter would be able to follow in her mother’s footsteps and be a pro quarterback proudly wearing her mom’s number.
I’m not sure what papa Rypien is supposed to do in this case, unless we’re suggesting that he run out onto the field, throw a blanket over her, give her a public scolding, and drag her off the field like a child. I don’t think it would help matters much if he publicly denounced the league because of the uniform that his daughter wears (or doesn’t wear, as the case may be). A father drawing attention to what his daughter wears is hardly going to help her be proud of her body and not ashamed of it.
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I’m a woman and trust me, not all of us are as far gone as the author. Defense of he honor…sounds like she’s the slut-shaming, rape-culture enhancing type…
ohmygod! I laughed so hard thatguy! Totally classic!
Slow clap into standing ovation…..That Guy FTW