Today is Memorial Day in the United States, a day of remembering all the men and women who have died in the Armed Forces.
War is hell. Sometimes it is necessary, and I mourn those who have died in those wars; many times it is not, and I mourn even more those who died not in the cause of justice but in the cause of colonialism, adventurism, or enriching a few people back home. I mourn those on both sides who have died, because most people on either side of a war are not evil monsters, but people who are doing what they think is right, even if they’re fighting for a cause I find appalling. Similarly, on this Memorial Day, I remember the civilians– male and female– who have suffered and died, but are too often forgotten.
Below the cut I have included a few of my favorite poems about war.
Bent double, like old beggars under sacks,
Knock-kneed, coughing like hags, we cursed through sludge,
Till on the haunting flares we turned our backs
And towards our distant rest began to trudge.
Men marched asleep. Many had lost their boots
But limped on, blood-shod. All went lame; all blind;
Drunk with fatigue; deaf even to the hoots
Of tired, outstripped Five-Nines that dropped behind.
Gas! Gas! Quick, boys! – An ecstasy of fumbling,
Fitting the clumsy helmets just in time;
But someone still was yelling out and stumbling,
And flound’ring like a man in fire or lime . . .
Dim, through the misty panes and thick green light,
As under a green sea, I saw him drowning.
In all my dreams, before my helpless sight,
He plunges at me, guttering, choking, drowning.
If in some smothering dreams you too could pace
Behind the wagon that we flung him in,
And watch the white eyes writhing in his face,
His hanging face, like a devil’s sick of sin;
If you could hear, at every jolt, the blood
Come gargling from the froth-corrupted lungs,
Obscene as cancer, bitter as the cud
Of vile, incurable sores on innocent tongues,
My friend, you would not tell with such high zest
To children ardent for some desperate glory,
The old Lie; Dulce et Decorum est
Pro patria mori.
–Wilfred Owen, Dulce et Decorum Est.
A. “I was a Have.” B. “I was a ‘have-not.’”
(Together.) “What hast thou given which I gave not?”
–Rudyard Kipling, Equality of Sacrifice
My son was killed while laughing at some jest. I would I knew
What it was, and it might serve me in a time when jests are few.
–Rudyard Kipling,
I could not dig: I dared not rob:
Therefore I lied to please the mob.
Now all my lies are proved untrue
And I must face the men I slew.
What tale shall serve me here among
Mine angry and defrauded young?
–Rudyard Kipling, A Dead Statesman

It seems strange that officially only soldiers are to be remembered but not the civilians they murdered (insert Tucholsky quote here). Although I guess in a country which hasn’t experienced a war on its own soil for a long time and where propaganda hides killed civilians of the other side behind euphemisms like “collateral damage”, it’s par for the course to neglect them — even though they suffer the most. It also seems strange that in Ozy’s eyes it would only be required for soldiers to think they are doing the right thing in order to be mourned after they… Read more »
To me, it’s a time of remembering everyone who died in war, whether civilian or military, on our side or theirs, so perhaps we may keep from killing so many people in war to begin with.
@Kristine:
“Was there ever a human who thought of themselves as “evil”?”
Yes. Some are proud of it, some are ashamed but can’t help it, and some know they are evil but just don’t care. Many of these also harness others to do evil unknowingly, under false pretenses.
For me, it’s Thomas Hardy’s “The Man He Killed”: Had he and I but met By some old ancient inn, We should have set us down to wet Right many a nipperkin! But ranged as infantry, And staring face to face, I shot at him as he at me, And killed him in his place. I shot him dead because– Because he was my foe, Just so: my foe of course he was; That’s clear enough; although He thought he’d ‘list, perhaps, Off-hand like–just as I– Was out of work–had sold his traps– No other reason why. Yes; quaint and… Read more »
Ah Dulce Et Decorum Est. Perhaps overused, it is still one of the greatest war poems of all time. And Eric Bogle is a fantastic singer-songwriter. This is the original version of No Man’s Land: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OjxMQHYo3U
It’s slower and more stripped down. His other most famous song, And the Band Played Waltzing Matilda, is more Australia specific, but in some ways it’s even sadder. It’s more personal:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WG48Ftsr3OI