Some mild private lusting is not only OK, but purely human, writes Trent Kays.
Archives for October 2011
Meat
When it comes to lust, Rick Belden wonders what we’re really after.
Traditionally Radical: The Rise of the Stay-At-Home Dad
A stay-at-home dad is no less of a parent than a stay-at-home mom, so what’s the difference?
Lust and Love at War in Me
Seth Mullins is on a journey to reconcile his feelings of lust with his feelings of desire.
The Universe Invited Me To Write About Masculinity. So Here I Am.
Atalwin Pilon is a self-proclaimed former bad boy from Amsterdam who had a spiritual awakening at 32. Welcome to The Good Men Project.
Ten things I’ve learned from crowds
There is one acceptable place to look in a crush of people on a subway in rush hour. Up. When you are in a mob, you feel powerful. When you are facing a mob, you feel desperate. Crowds allow for many things you can’t do on your own: crowd-surfing, crowd-sourcing, ‘the wave’, orgies. Elevators are…
The Problems of the World Are Not All the Fault of Men: A Woman Talks About Male Guilt
If some ‘women’s issues’ are really all about making men feel guilty for being men, Lisa Hickey wonders, how will we move forward?
In Flight – Seeing the Possible with a Four Year Old
A couple of years ago, my four year old son Sam and I were leaving a big box bookstore in upstate New York. It was winter, close to Thanksgiving. I held him in the crook of my arm, his face next to mine, his small arm confidently draped across my shoulder. It was around 6PM.…
Link Awesomeness
Pharyngula links to a documentary on circumcision. I have not actually seen it, so I don’t know if it’s problematic or not, but I figured it would be relevant to some of our commenters’ interests. Anyway, Papa Zed wouldn’t post it if it were seriously problematic. Adorable poem about trans sex. Seriously. This poem is the…
#whodwin Wednesday: Issue #13, “Let The Kids Fight!” [Fan-Decided Character Battles]
Tim Drake vs. WW2 Bucky! Black Alice vs. Hit-Girl! Teenaged Spider-Man vs. Malcolm Dragon! Young Loki vs. Kid Karnevil! Find out who fans favor!
Why Is He Crying?
She’s not happy that her boyfriend is shedding tears after they watch Avatar. What gives?
Webcomics: Force Galaxia: SuperGreen 14, Times They Are A Changin’ (Part 8) [@redskew, #thenewblack]
Get ready for a thrilling installment of Andre Owens’ star-spanning adventures.
Humor: Boldly Rep Yo City Where Nobody Has Repped Their City Before [#startrek]
Who knew that Mr. Spock was, secretly, an Ice Cube fan all these years?
Oh, I Get Why It’s Called The Good Men Project Now
The signs are all there: it’s about the discussion.
Douche of the Week–Cliff Harris
Way to do your school proud, bro. Go Ducks. I’m gonna cut straight to the heart of the matter. University of Oregon cornerback Cliff Harris is one ignorant son of a bitch. This Duck is fucked. [Did ya like what I did there? He’s a U of O Duck. And he’s fucked. For real.]…
Not This Morning: A Prisoner’s Dispatch
Currently incarcerated at Antioch prison in California, A. Whitfield brings us inside the bars of his hungry cell.