There were days when Benjamin Railton had plenty of important things to do. Then something happened to make him question everything about how he was spending his time.
Gimme the Beat, Boys, and Free My Soul: A Playlist for Divorced Dads
Many of the best songs are written about break-ups, but do any of them speak to what a divorced father is going through? Ben Railton shares this playlist of six songs that do…
Can’t Win But For Losing: Playing Board Games with My Sons
Ben Railton makes the case for why occasionally letting his sons win at board games can actually be more empathetic and educational than leaving the outcomes up to chance.
Taco Today: Learning to Love Cooking for One After a Separation
Newly separated, Ben Railton is beginning to realize that cooking for himself can be just as meaningful as cooking for his entire family.
What Remains: The Artifacts of Family Life During a Separation
Ben Railton reflects on the moments of beauty and sadness that visit him while cleaning up after his kids once they’ve gone to stay with their mother.
The Next Chapter: Reading with My Sons During My Divorce
During a difficult time, Ben Railton struggled to share one of his favorite childhood books with his sons, a reading experience that bonded them in unexpected ways.