About Clarisse Thorn

Clarisse Thorn is a feminist S&M writer whose new book, Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser, is now available for Amazon Kindle as well as every other ebook format at Smashwords. You can also buy the paperback at CreateSpace. Clarisse has delivered sexuality workshops and lectures to universities and museums across the USA. She is the Sex + Relationships Section Editor at the gender-lens site Role/Reboot; she blogs about feminism and sexuality at clarissethorn.com, and she tweets @clarissethorn.

“50 Shades of Grey,” “Fight Club,” and the Complications of Male Dominance

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Clarisse Thorn sees nothing new in eroticized images of male dominance and violence, but she sees plenty that’s thought-provoking.

Can We Make This More Complicated?

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Clarisse Thorn talks rape, feminism, BDSM, and what it’s all taught her about the ethics of complexity.

[Book Excerpt] Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser: Long Interviews with Hideous Men

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In chasing the pickup artist, Clarisse Thorn learns that playing with fire … is hot.

Orgasms Aren’t My Favorite Part Of Sex, and My Chastity Urge

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Are orgasms overrated? Why do people choose chastity? Clarisse Thorn answers these question in a two part sex column.

Lessons From the Seduction Community, Part Three: Explicit and Tacit Sexual Communication

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From safewords to pickup artists to feminists, Clarisse Thorn explores the many standards of sexual communication and consent.

Feminist Lessons From the Seduction Community, Part Two: Self-Help Versus Misogyny

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Clarisse Thorn continues her exploration into the world of the Pickup Artist and finds a confused, often conflicting culture.

Feminist S&M Lessons From the Seduction Community: Part One, the “Neg”

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Clarisse Thorn begins her deep exploration into the world of the Pick-Up Artist.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Four

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After a long look, Clarisse Thorn finally finds her sexual identity.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Three

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Clarisse Thorn continues her journey toward a fulfilling sex life.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Two

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Clarisse Thorne had an orgasm once. Then, she couldn’t have another.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm

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Clarisse Thorn searches her past experiences, physiology, and sexual preferences to shine light on what constitutes the female orgasm.

The Myth of the Sex-Crazy Nympho Dream Girl

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Clarisse Thorn on why men and women ‘perform’ in bed—and why we have a tough time figuring out what genuinely turns us on.

Ethical Pickup Artistry

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Where can men find non-misogynist advice for hitting on women?

Why Are Men Expected to Make the First Move?

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Are we ready to move past these stereotypical roles?

Lit Inspiration: Being Good in Bed Is About Attentiveness

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It’s true that size does, generally, matter. But I really do believe that these things matter a hell of a lot less than open-hearted and open-minded attention to one’s partner. And that’s why I love this quotation from Haruki Murakami’s Sputnik Sweetheart.

Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs?

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Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they’re candid about their desires. So how can a man express his sexual needs without being tarred as a creep?