
One of the benefits of having lived on this earth for four decades is that you get to witness a lot.
You get to witness trends come and go, economic cycles emerge and dissipate, and social movements evolve and decline.
All this can help distinguish between sensationalism and reality.
The reason I bring this up is that, as of late, I have started to notice an uptick in YouTube videos gloating over the demise of the Red Pill.
It’s still too early to say if this is a permanent or temporary phenomenon. Either way, I’m not buying it. But more on this later.
Now, YouTube is, by far, one of the biggest vectors for Red Pill ideas, far more so than other social media platforms. Long-form content has more avenues of persuasion, from presenting structured arguments to reinforcing ideas through entertainment. YouTube does it all.
If you use incognito mode and search the term “Red Pill” on the platform, the vast majority of content presented will be almost wholly anti-Red Pill. For example, this is what I was presented with in the first eight results, in no particular order:
1) Dailywire Has Declared War on the Red Pill — Pearl
2) Red Pill Podcast Fatigue — Antonio Talks
3) Red Pill Detox: What Men Realize Once the Rage Fades — The Q Pill
4) Red Pill Content is Toxic — ggrimey
5) I was in the Red Pill. Now it makes me sick. A warning — Ed Latimore
6) ‘Red Pill Destroyed My Marriage…’ Woman Says She Refused to Stay, Content Creators Are to Blame — Anton Daniels
7) The Red Pill Pipeline Is ‘A Cult,’ Here’s How I Escaped — The Guardian
8) The Red Pill Ruined a Generation of Men — Purpose Driven
And it keeps on going…
It’s only around the 30th video that something positive about the Red Pill comes up — from a self-identified Red Pill influencer, no less:
How the Red Pill Helped Me Attract Higher Quality Women — Austin Dunham Dating
So it makes sense why all this talk about the demise of the Red Pill is trending. I definitely can see why it would feel like the movement is on its last leg, given the search results. YouTube is likely prioritizing critical videos over positive ones in its recommendations for neutral viewers.
It doesn’t mean pro‑Red Pill videos are getting blocked entirely, just their visibility is lower now compared to a few years back.
Add to this that Sneako, a popular influencer who has been likened to an Andrew Tate lite, recently denounced the Red Pill, stating that the movement is full of grifters and charlatans.
The Red Pill is not dying that easily
There seem to be two types of content creators denouncing the Red Pill.
First, you have those who were never much into the movement who, upon witnessing the sudden mainstream backlash, including Red Pill influencers getting deplatformed or outright renouncing the movement, deduced the writing on the wall.
And then you have those like Sneako. They drank the Red Pill Kool-Aid, became disgruntled in the process, and decided to denounce their brethren, a schism further exacerbated as the movement falls out of favor algorithmically.
But make no mistake, neither one is coming from a genuine place.
Red Pill out, misogyny in
You see, it’s all fine and dandy to speak out against the Red Pill, but if the underlying causes — sexism, misogyny, gender essentialism, objectification, patriarchy — continue to not only be condoned but practiced, then what good is talking about the dangers of the Red Pill?
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying people shouldn’t talk against the Red Pill; all I’m saying is that doing so is not enough.
I have yet to see any of these new anti-Red Pill talking heads mention patriarchy and the systems it uses to control and limit women. The only people discussing these issues are women and a few men who are supportive of, dare I say, feminist values.
This is why all this “the Red Pill is dying” talk misses the point. The movement is just the amalgamation of age-old misogynistic beliefs repackaged for the digital age, where the strongest reactions and extreme content grab attention fastest.
The ideology that shapes the Red Pill has always been there in one form or another. Before this modern reincarnation, its proponents were shock-jock radio personalities such as Tom Leykis, Howard Stern, and Opie & Anthony.
Before that, you had the seduction community, with figures such as Ross Jeffries, Mystery, and Roosh V.
It doesn’t matter how far back you go; you will always find masculinity practitioners who see themselves as the arbiters of what it means to be a man.
People like Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit are treading on worn ground, doing what has come before. The only difference is social media. It has given them far greater reach than would have been possible a few decades ago.
Until the day women are viewed as equals, the Red Pill, including the broader manosphere, is not going away any time soon.
At best, it might evolve into something new, possibly under a new moniker, while keeping the same underlying ideas, slightly sanitized to be more palatable to the powers that be.
So what’s the solution?
I will be the first to admit, I’m not an expert, and I don’t claim to have the answer.
What I do know is that convincing someone out of the Red Pill with facts and logic might work, but it does little in the way of ridding the underlying beliefs that got them there.
Which is why I believe the best approach is to start young. We need to start teaching our young boys how to better relate to girls in a healthy way as soon as they start interacting with peers of the opposite sex.
It’s not enough to leave this task up to the schools, and definitely not the Internet.
This has to be a united effort from parents, extending up to relatives and society as a whole.
Otherwise, I don’t envision anything changing any time soon.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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