There is something attractive about a person who knows how to treat others.
What is the first thought that comes to your mind when you think about the word “attractive?” Is it another person’s external beauty? For some, it may mean just that.
Here’s the deal: As you know, there is much more to being attractive than just looks.
While marketing my own business, I have found a well-known “secret” to be very beneficial and it has drawn many clients to me. It is sometimes referred to as the Golden Rule. When was the last time you dealt with someone who treated you like you were the second option? No one wants to be on the team only because they were the last option to select from.
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Being attractive on the exterior has its benefits, but if you have a sour personality, it is less useful. If you are not physically attractive and you have no personality, well, you are probably going to have a tough life.
Having an attractive exterior is not as important as having an attractive personality.
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If you want to become more attractive, it begins with realizing your own inner strength. There’s “more than what meets the eye”, right? Sure there is. In this case, if you treat others well, seek to serve the interests of others, and show genuine concern for others, your attractive rating will skyrocket.
I have found a tremendous amount of success through revamping my personality and the way I approach relationships. This has had a tremendously positive effect on my personal relationships and with those who don’t like me so well.
Having a more attractive personality can cause a domino effect of positive things to occur in your life.
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There have been many comparisons of attraction between men and women over the years. This includes many books, movies, comedies, you name it, but none have accurately depicted the glaring difference between men and women. Notice, I said difference, not inequality. One thing we do have, in society, is an inequality in the way we measure attractiveness between men and women.
So makes a man, well, good? Is it, as mentioned, his looks (external attractiveness), personality (social attractiveness), or social status?
A good man may not have a good past and thus he is perceived as not being socially attractive. Isn’t it funny how that works? I once knew of a man who made a series of really stupid mistakes and he was forced to pay the price for his mistakes for nearly two decades. Everyone wondered why he had a terrible attitude and it was a horrible cycle for him to be in.
Name every mistake you have ever made. Do any of those disqualify you from being a good man today? Do any of your past “poor judgements” negate the external or internal (social) attractiveness you bear? If this is the case, how long before you are permitted by society to overcome them? Listen, no one is perfect, but I believe too often we use that statement as an excuse to not pursue perfection in our life.
We can achieve great, no, amazing things in life. With the infinite amount of resources available to us in today’s world of technology, we can educate ourselves on ways to become more attractive in every way.
The first way we, as men, can become more attractive, is in the way we treat other people.
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