Our minds are happiest when they are seeking and following patterns. We like the experience of predictability with outcomes, consciously and unconsciously. Most of us enjoy getting things done and feeling a sense of achievement.
When speaking or writing I often come up with three related words when referencing a specific topic or concept. I find that my mind can find one and then two and then all three words that support the thing that I am talking about with someone.
Not only does the mind seek the pattern, but the mind also will move quickly to offer up the content with the pattern. For example, when I communicate about leadership traits my mind gives me three of them in very quick order.
Leadership traits might include empathy, enthusiasm, and energy. The three words came to me as quickly as I needed to write them into this piece. The practice of being open to my mind and filling in the pattern has resulted in some insightful thoughts that I credit to my openness and willingness to accept as the most supportive thoughts.
The beauty of the example for the 3s is also an excellent example of how alliteration can be impactful when communicating with other people. Just as my mind seeks and follows patterns, so does that happen for other people.
We can usually remember three things when we are going to get them at the grocery store without a written list. We are reminded of the importance of 3s if we have a middle name and are called out by it when we are in trouble with a parent. Our mind’s relationship with 3s might even be deeply embedded in our faith journey which means it has been a part of our mindfulness for thousands of years.
When I first learned about alliteration, I thought it was fun, and my opinion about it has only grown stronger over our long relationship.
One of my favorite 3s with alliteration is focused on a pattern for achieving success that I have used in my career for over 40 years.
Awareness: Being in the present is one of the best ways to become aware of what is going on within you and around you. Tapping into the cues that are shared will give you insights into how best to move forward with the most appropriate actions.
Action: Being mindful of the power of verbs when it comes to pursuing a goal or objective can put us on the correct course. Every action must be language with a present tense verb to engage the mind in taking action.
Accountability: Holding ourselves accountable might not always be the best way to get things done. Having an accountability partner or coach in our corner supports our staying the course and getting things done.
Achieving successful outcomes relies on intentionality that must include being in the present moment, doing things on a timely basis, and following through to completion. Having the 3s and alliteration in your corner might just be the thing to bring about more successful outcomes and results in your life.
How might you be more present with your environment and surroundings?
What actions drive you to achieving successful outcomes and results?
How do you hold yourself to the work needed to achieve success?
With much gratitude…
Editor’s note: This post was written previous to Phil’s unexpected death last month. We publish it as a tribute to his generosity and wisdom. RIP, Phil.
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