When you remember me, if you ever do again, I hope it will be this way.
Let’s Stop Blaming Disney
If adults are complaining that their lives are not fairy tales, we should all be very frightened.
5 Things I Hear As A Married Man
Demonstrating on this 4th of July that individuality and marriage can (and should) go together.
Being One With All You Witness
Gint Aras’ career as a writer has changed a lot, and so has his perspective on what his future as an author will look like.
Gint Aras’ career as a writer has changed a lot, and so has his perspective on what his future as an author will look like.
DOMA Goes Down
A reason to celebrate.
Stanley Cup to Chicago: If You’re Not a Hockey Fan Now, You’ll Never Be One
Gint Aras, on the Chicago Blackhawks and why hockey is his favorite sport.
Raising Trilingual Children in America
Marriage editor Gint Aras is preserving history and forging the future by raising a trilingual family. In Chicago, as in many European cities, this is the norm.
A Father’s Day Fantasy
This is only a dream, only an awesome dream.
Finding Happiness in the Perfect Hat
We are only given a few moments in life when something feels truly perfect. For Gint Aras, that perfect feeling came with a linen cap on a street in Lithuania.
We are only given a few moments in life when something feels truly perfect. For Gint Aras, that perfect feeling came with a linen cap on a street in Lithuania.
Becoming a Man Who is Ready For Love
It took a few years and a lot of broken hearts for Gint Aras to discover what it would take for him to be ready for real love.
Your Clothing Does Not Define You
Gint Aras used to believe that rejecting style made him unique. But he grew to learn that style and fashion can be an empowering sign of respect.
Running Into Your First Love
The blinking and flashing midsummer storms of adolescent love have unusual staying power.
Rejected Proposals: Stories Wanted
Have you ever been led on to believe you were going to get married only to have your proposal rejected? The Good Men Project wants your story.
Giving Mother-in-Law Good Rap
Our culture unfortunately stresses the stress of relations between the married children and their in-laws.
Should We Forgive Apologetic Bullies?
Bullying leaves life-long consequences. Is one of those consequences a lifetime of clouded judgement?
On Turning 40
Gint Aras turns 40 today, and his wishes are simple.













