We can raise a whole generation of children who have the capacity to embody what all the great sages have instructed us: Love thy enemy.
Shedding the Role of The Father
To role model true compassion, we need to give up ownership of our children.
Sexual Healing
A new vision of 21st century male sexuality.
Knock On Wood: Secret Parenting Tips Found in a Redwood Forest
“The trick seems to be stay centered and grounded.”
Ten Easy New Year’s Resolutions for Fathers
My sons motivate me to be a better man every day.
Why My Sons Still Believe in Santa Claus
Santa Claus will always exist as long as someone believes that giving is more rewarding than receiving.
The Missing Education of Boys
Why current practices in education forecast a disaster for boys.
The Three Most Important Words in [Life] Design
Designing your life can be as simple as an Eames Lounge Chair
Parenting Tips from a Homeless Man
What the homeless can teach us about raising children.
Life Lessons From My First Car
Finding happiness by loving life like a used car: AS IS
Heal Your Relationship Without Saying a Word
This ancient Hawaiian healing ritual can transform your relationships and your life.
This ancient Hawaiian healing ritual can transform your relationships and your life.
What Good Will Hunting Teaches Us About Men, Shame, and Suicide
“Shame, fear, isolation, addiction. Shame, fear, isolation, addiction. After a few hundred times through the spiral, men will do anything to get off the ride, including suicide.”
Loving Darth Vader: Embracing Contempt and Anger
Kozo Hattori embraces the Dark Side of the Force in his relationships.
Fear and Loneliness in Boys and Men
How fear and loneliness are wired together in boys and men.
5 Ways to Keep Your Son Out of Prison
How Kozo Hattori is proactively keeping his sons out of jail.
Why I’m No Longer Using the C-Word
Kozo Hattori investigates the fundamental misunderstanding about the C-word.












