Nick Alexander’s version of going out might be interpreted by some as coming out. It was a frigid night in mid-December, and we were at the Tropicana in Atlantic City. Free drinks and a big win at craps brought us to a club where we traded our hard-earned money for bottle service. We sat around…
Would a Real Man Push Back?
Nick Alexander wonders if his consideration of violence as an option—when it clearly was not the best option—was a method of reinforcing his masculinity to himself?