A man who does not work with his sexual energy gets worked by it.
She Needs to Talk, Do You Need to Listen?
What happens inside of you when she says, “I need to talk”?
What happens inside of you when she says, “I need to talk”?
Men, Tears, and Strength
Tears do not rob a man of his masculinity. In fact, they refine his masculinity.
Tears do not rob a man of his masculinity. In fact, they refine his masculinity.
The Stoic or Sensitive Guy: Which One Are You?
Are you the guy who feels nothing or feels everything?
Are you the guy who feels nothing or feels everything?
The Controller and the Caregiver–2 Characters Who Keep You Small
Withholds — it’s not a word often spoken between couples. And yet withholds are everywhere in relationship.
Withholds — it’s not a word often spoken between couples. And yet withholds are everywhere in relationship.
Bigger or Smaller — How You Feel With Her
Are you the guy who feels horrible when your partner says – “you’re just not open”?
Are you the guy who feels horrible when your partner says – “you’re just not open”?
Focus On the Repair, Not the Damage
What if the ideal relationship is not “conflict-free” but “conflict-resilient?” What does that look like?
What if the ideal relationship is not “conflict-free” but “conflict-resilient?” What does that look like?
How Can She Love You When You Hate Yourself
Knowledge without mastery is like a key without a door.
Knowledge without mastery is like a key without a door.
4 Relational Conflict Styles – Which One Are You ?
Let’s unwind the dynamics.
Let’s unwind the dynamics.
How We Fill Our Ancestral Void
Why do we attempt to fill the void with a partner?
Why do we attempt to fill the void with a partner?
I Trust You to Keep Me Safe
“I love you so much that I want you to be you, authentically one hundred percent, even if that means losing you.”
“I love you so much that I want you to be you, authentically one hundred percent, even if that means losing you.”
Love in Vietnam
A few days ago, a woman in Vietnam proposed to me.
A few days ago, a woman in Vietnam proposed to me.
Unlock Your Precious Heart
To the parts of you that fear being seen.
To the parts of you that fear being seen.
Creating Distance to Create Desire
How do we attach in relationship? Does it serve us?
How do we attach in relationship? Does it serve us?
Hiding Hard Feelings and How It Affects Your Relationship
Is it worth keeping your heart locked up?
Is it worth keeping your heart locked up?
The Allure of the Exotic to Slay the Comfort That Kills
Here, on the other side of the world, I need only belong to myself.
Here on the other side of the world, I need only belong to myself.















