This is not the myth of “she completes me.” It is something bigger, more universal, more of the world, not just about us.
About Stuart Motola
The Benefit of Being a Victim
I'm OK with failure if I choose failutre. But I fear failure if I choose success.
I’m OK with failure if I choose failutre. But I fear failure if I choose success.
The #1 Way for Guys to Kill it in Relationship
Here are five ways any man can be in relationship with more joy, less anxiety, more connection, and sex.
Here are five ways any man can be in relationship with more joy, less anxiety, more connection, and sex.
The Creep is on My Back
I have to learn to listen to my soul.
I have to learn to listen to my soul.
Man Lesson: The Night Her Palm Smashed My Face
In conflict with a woman, a man must ask himself — do you rely on your physical strength to assert yourself over her?
In conflict with a woman, a man must ask himself — do you rely on your physical strength to assert yourself over her?
I Lost My Way & That’s a Good Thing
It took breaking an artery in my leg, 30 nights of waking up with “knife in the leg” pain, and five weeks of being “on my back” – to get the memo.
It took breaking an artery in my leg, 30 nights of waking up with “knife in the leg” pain, and five weeks of being “on my back” – to get the memo.
The One Way To Unlock Freedom, Sex, & Love
We need to understand that we control very little but influence nearly everything.
We need to understand that we control very little but influence nearly everything.
Beyond Fear and Worry
I can create my own reality.
I can create my own reality.
Guys, Tame Your Anxious Lover
4 tips for maintaining healthy individuation and nourishing connection at the same time.
4 tips for maintaining healthy individuation and nourishing connection at the same time.
Tap The Deep Well
“In the thick of crisis, we must pause and survey the landscape around us, not just react.”
“In the thick of crisis, we must pause and survey the landscape around us, not just react.”
Ladies, Give It To Him… Now
Whatever happens outside of the bedroom happens inside the bedroom.
Whatever happens outside of the bedroom happens inside the bedroom.
What Kind of Man Are You?… Is He?
Cultivate ferocity and tenderness within.
She looks over him at the kitchen table. He is home after a long day at work, eating a snack, reading a text on his phone. She says something, then something else. He’s not sure what. Her tone says all he needs to know. Oh, shit. Now what? He thinks. He looks up from his phone, reluctantly. All…
How We Use Falling In Love To Make Meaning of Life
Find your way back to you.
Find your way back to you.
The Man She Dreams of Speaks His Truth
Be the man you both know you can be.
Be the man you both know you can be.
5 Ways to Make Her Happy (Bye Bye, Mr. Nice Guy)
Let her know she is with an empowered man.
Let her know she is with an empowered man.
You’re A Nice Guy & She Hates You For It
You are not just being nice, you're also being dishonest about it.
You are not just being nice, you’re also being dishonest about it.