Nineteen seconds that prove to me I’m not alone.
Posted by Youtube user Ryan Hafey, this 19-second film is of no use for men who want to become fathers. And it may not resonate for those who are fathers of grown-up children, or adults.
But it is definitely a kind of relief for us, who enjoy the pleasures of educating kids right now. Watching Ryan staring at the camera while his kids run and shout behind him makes me feel that I am not alone! Being an active father is a wonderful activity, of course. But there are always those times are challenging, when everything seems to go wrong and you can’t help to be totally pissed off by your own children and want to sell them (or give them for free). If they seem to be so happy at the same time, you feel like you’re having the super-combo of anger and boredness. Don’t show that, it could get worse! As this father’s expression seems to say, “This too shall pass.” Put down the camera, and try running with them.
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