This comment was by MandyRuthless in reference to the post – How to Respond When He Shuts You Out
I have found 10/10 times when a man checks out because he is questioning the relationship and his ability to stay in it. If he knows your value to him and what is at stake he won’t do this to you. Yes, guys will make mistakes and get caught up in their indecisiveness and totally regret losing you or risking the relationship, but after 32 years on this planet and dating enough men, your instincts are dead on.
Standing your ground and not putting up with emotional abuse like this is the only think you should do. If he goes and disappears from the radar for a few days or even a week…cut your ties from him and RUN. If you told him how you feel and he’s still closed off he is taking you and the relationship for granted.
Get out before he does. He will keep you on an emotional rollercoaster that is not worth the ride.
An emotionally stable man who knows a good thing isn’t worth losing will never let your relationship fall apart like that.
Get out now ladies. Save your self esteem while you have some left. Same goes to guys as well. Let them figure themselves out on their own. Let them feel the emptiness that they just poured out on to you. Keep moving forward and don’t go back. You are better than this. There is someone out there better and mature enough to love the right way.
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