Life is full of drama and sometimes seems impossible to negotiable. All over the world, the demand is to improve change drastically and rapidly due to technology. When it comes to choosing the right people, we find the defects in everyone, but what about ourselves?
No doubt, technology adds value, and city life is full of luxuries. You don’t need to cook at home; the restaurant can make delicious food for you 24 hours.
The risk of getting caught up as the prey of any addiction or laziness becomes far greater. A panic attack, obsession, envy, and lust are just a single click away from you. People choose to live in high standards like celebrities and entrepreneurs, often creating debt to do so.
What about the traits that can shape you for the 21st Century?
Let’s dive into 5 Traits that act as your lifeline to live a peaceful life, a life with less turmoil and anxiety.
1.Self-awareness.
Self-awareness is like your habitual personal stuff, a toothbrush or hair comb. It is your perpetual habit of asking questions of yourself. In our childhood, we often develop the habit of blame and act like an innocent. At that time, we say to ourselves: “Ha-ha! I trick others, make others stupid”.
As time goes by, it will kill our faulty logic to Question ourselves critically. Why I do it for Mom? Is it my responsibility to cover this project? Why do I get angry often with Mike? A habit of consistently asking questions opens up your emotional maturity.
2.Risk tolerance:
We live in a guided-risky world. That’s not usual that we experience a loss every day.
I talk about the risk of pursuing your career or having a secure job. Are you prepared to trade-off? Almost every field of life demands sacrifice or losing something. The best strategy to choose the career that requires less effort but, ultimately gives you a reasonable reward of a secure life.
3.Scepticism:
In the hub of information, a person who reads a single Vitamin C poster outside Corner-shop believes he knows everything about vitamin C.
No doubt, we need to use our minds to choose every aspect of life. The best is to check the evidence at first. Maybe the medicine you use can be dangerous for the second dosage. Don’t be your own doctor. The world is full of spammers, live and die by facts and evidence.
Follow your rational thinking and choose what you deserve. It’s not about staying against any school of thought. It’s about neither.
Choose to live with uncertainty because humans are still in progress.
4.Compassion:
We need the energy to get up and point fist in the sky with the holy words, I can. It’s human nature to make mistakes. If we lose our compassion, our forgiveness dies like a blue moon.
It’s our mistakes that allow us to be together and love each other. When you dig deep into any subject, you see that most of the evil in the world happens because the doer thinks that it’s for good.
Things are complicated, hard to solve without a bunch of mistakes.
Our world is swirling. Calm down and accept it.
5.Patience:
If you develop this trait through consistent practice and find a job that feeds it, you are out from the crowd. Because it is the impulsive, “want results fast” that feeds our erroneous thinking and behavior. Once you’re willing to burn the midnight oil to get results after the next 5 Years, wait through the drama, you will get the upshots with abundance. Patience allows you to choose the reaction of your frustration and regret without harshness.
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The article previously published on medium
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