9 Signs He Wants You

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Men tend to be more forthcoming in general when they like someone.

We all know that some guys can be obnoxious douchebags, and they have no problem shouting across a busy street to let you know just how fine you are. However, chances are that the type of guy you’re interested in doesn’t behave this way.

You might find yourself wondering if he likes you at all. Well, the good news is that there are subtle clues and signals that you can decode quite easily to find out if a guy truly is into you.

When you know what to look for. It’s not that difficult to interpret. Pay close attention to his behavior.

Facial Expressions

If you want to know if a man is truly into you. The first step is to look closely at his facial expressions during your interactions, specifically his pupil dilation as this can be a major indicator of interest and arousal.

If you notice his pupils dilate when he’s looking at you, this can be a definite sign that he likes you.

Additionally, if he raises his eyebrows and licks his lips, he’s talking to you or smiles in a way that reveals all of his front teeth, then you can bet he’s into you.

His Body Language

Another indicator that a guy likes you is revealed by his body language when he’s around you.

If his movements and hand gestures seem to be more overstated and exaggerated, specifically by drawing attention to himself in a way that shows that he’s powerful, sturdy, and takes up a lot of space. He’s hoping to capture your interest and fully entice you.

If his feet are pointed toward you during your interactions, this can also be a sign that he’s interested as this type of stance demonstrates that he’s making himself completely approachable and non-threatening.

Another unspoken action that speaks volumes is when he sits with his legs wide apart also known as manspreading by sitting with his legs wide open. He’s showing that he’s open and available to a lot more than you would think.

His gaze

He will look for opportunities to bring himself closer to you, while this can simply be found in his tendency to lean in close when you’re talking. It can also be evident in his desire to maintain eye contact with you.

That’s a pretty good sign since most guys just prefer looking at your breasts.

A Good Listener

He listens to you without interruptions or distractions. This can allow him to show how much he likes you. I mean, let’s face it. Some girls tend to just ramble on and on.

So if he’s listening to you, you can take that as a pretty good sign. In addition, if he can recall tiny details from your past conversations, then he likes you.

Competent

Another way a man lets you know that he’s interested in you is by complimenting you at every opportunity he gets.

When he takes the time to compliment you. He’s probably saying he likes you without having to say it.

However, it’s important to listen to the type of compliment that he gives you. A compliment about your appearance, but a clear sign that he’s into you.

Another indicator can be found when he compliments you on an emotional level rather than a physical one. For example, he praises your kindness, your sincerity, or your devotion to a friend and he’s surpassing the superficial and is hoping to show you just how much he likes you as a person.

Personal Questions

If you’re still wondering whether he likes you, another definitive sign is the personal question he asks. As opposed to only engaging in casual small talk with you or only asking you about school or work-related topics by asking a lot of questions. He’s not only hoping to get to know you better, but he’s also looking to create a bond between the two of you. Plus, asking questions gives them an easy and stress-free way to initiate and sustain a conversation with you so you can keep the dialogue flowing and hopefully create some sparks.

Makes Plans with You

He takes the lead and will follow through to spend more time with you. A man who has feelings for you and will likely respond to your texts and calls with rapid speed. Also, they’ll more likely just take the lead and keep the communication going.

But it’s important to pay close attention to what kind of plans he’s making. When a guy initiates plans in advance that involve more conventional date-like activities. He truly wants to spend quality time with you. On the other hand, if he initiates last-minute plans with you, he’s not showing very much interest or investment in you. Probably, he’s just looking for a booty call.

Does Nice Things

A man who cares about you goes out of his way to do nice things for you. Whether it’s bringing you coffee, giving you a ride, or offering to fix your computer. When he makes a dedicated effort to give you his attention he is showing his affection for you.

He wants to do these things for you out of the goodness of his heart because he likes you.

Introduces to his friends and family

This is a big one. When a guy introduces you to the important people in his life. He’s looking to get their impression since the opinions of his friends and family can be quite meaningful.

He’s literally into you if he’s choosing to include you in various gatherings, events, and occasions.

He also wants to see how you interact with those people to determine if there’s potential for you to have a real future together. After all, if you don’t get along with his friends and family, his hopes for a relationship with you may sink.

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