You cringe at having to speak those cliche 4 words, “Where is this going?”
Is it the right moment to ask yet? Will he think you’re being pushy?
Too many women choose to carry on and just go with their feelings. And I get it. It’s fun. It’s romantic. But it can also leave you with a nasty surprise later when you realize you’re both not on the same page.
So, let’s make a deal: no more avoiding.
Let’s take power back, and stop allowing decisions to be made for us…
How to have
difficult conversations in and out of a
relationship and to have this difficult
conversation you don’t have I think
that’s good there’s just so many people
wasting time wasting time with the wrong
people and not actually being as
attractive as they could be if they were
communicating their standards like they
feel like their standards are gonna
scare someone away instead of realizing
that that standard is actually going to
make that person whatever more men are
not great liars but men are wonderful
avoiders they are wonderful avoiders
what do you think happens two months in
when you assume you’ve been having an
exclusive relationship with someone but
you never talked about it you never
talked about it cuz you just want to see
him happy go-lucky I’m having fun I’m
the casual go and the relationship let’s
just enjoy ourselves and see where this
goes what need for labels let’s just be
romantic let’s see what happens aren’t
we having fun this is amazing isn’t it
is it magical for you too cuz it’s
magical for me let’s keep going and then
two months in what happens you find out
he’s been still dating other people and
you’re heartbroken because you’re
already emotionally invested to the
point where him kissing somebody else
sends daggers through you and you
realize he’s been dating other people
and so you bring that up and maybe he
does the decent thing…
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