During heartbreak, the same thought about the quality of an ex may become undesirable, from what used to be desirable. The contents of the thought are similar, yet the feeling is different. What does this imply about the mind?
Conceptually, it means that there is a motion in the mind, or a relaying agent or quantity, in the form of thought. Then there are properties, such as memory, feelings, emotions and reactions. So, the quantity relays to acquire the memory or knowledge of something, which becomes the thought of it, or thinking about it, then it goes to acquire desire, an emotion–as a property, when the relationship was going well.
After a breakup, the thought [instead] acquires lack of desire, pain, hurt, shame, irritation, vengefulness and so forth, depending on what partner or the cause. This says that thoughts are themselves not the final, what follows in acquisition qualifies their might. So, the two components of mind are quantities and properties. It is the property acquired, in any instance that becomes of any state or experience.
Why do thoughts race in heartbreak? Why does it feel like there is lack of sleep, intense sadness, regret, even possible physical sensation or bodily affect?
Quantities have early-splits or go-before, such that whatever quantity with properties, within the mind, or incoming from sensory input with pre-property, splits, to go ahead to acquire properties like previously, so that the rest follows its path if it matches, and if not, the rest goes another direction.
For example, hearing a sentence, the ability to infer what is next is from the split, while still paying attention, it may or may not match. Also, typing, writing, speaking also use this split, where it goes to collect what is next. Predictive coding, processing and prediction error in brain science are operated by splits.
In heartbreak, there are often sharper splits or divisions, with thoughts going everywhere, linking many things, including acquiring unwanted moods that include those that cannot be explained, but unpleasant. It is splits sometimes that make lack of sleep, or what seems like intense worrying to permeate, because several properties get acquired.
Quantities also have old and new sequences, as paths towards acquiring properties. Old sequences are useful for protocols or how things should be, like grammar, or steps in a process. But they are also responsible for boredom, cliché and so forth. New sequences are useful for adventure and exploration.
In heartbreak, some of the quantities continue to follow old sequences, to acquire different properties, sometimes before redirecting them. For example, what was used to acquire loveliness as an experience follows it path [like] to acquire it, before it detours to acquire irritation, using additional energy. In later weeks, months or years when moving on seems better, there is a new sequence for the property and already adapted as old, so it does not carry the same hurt. This means the thought of the partner follows its own sequence directly to no-desire, rather than redirection.
Quantities have prioritized and pre-prioritized phases. There is just one prioritized, but fast and numerous interchanges with other pre-prioritized. Prioritized has the most access to property destinations across the mind, at the moment. Quantities, in heartbreak take this phase, for diverse acquisitions.
Properties have a principal spot, where just one goes, to have the most domination. It is where the property of hurt may go, then attract quantities of several other properties, including of bodily functions like breathing, which may become fast or slow, or like heart rate, or fatigue. Properties that frequent the principal spot carry an indicator of being there, so that when they are acquired, they have a near dominating effect, making the trauma or others worse.
Properties also have bounce points, where quantities get to, and use a sequence to go to the next, as the reason one thing sometimes follows another. Properties also have thick and thin shapes. There are properties for every experience. All bodily functions also have properties across mind locations.
Heartbreaks are processed in the mind and not the brain. They can explain mental health and the human mind.
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