Question: Do you feel online dating sites are still taboo?
Answer: Thank you for your question. I’m grateful as it’s a curious one to me… I didn’t know dating sites were considered taboo.
However I honor your point of view given I’ve had so many clients over the last two decades who have such diametrically opposed ways of looking at things…What I find is if we open and invite in another point of view, that a whole new reality can open up 😉
Some clients have felt that matchmakers were fantastic and effective, others think they’re overpriced manipulators. Some people think speed dating is ridiculous while others have met their husband of 10 years at such an event. Some refuse to be set up on a blind date confident it would be a disaster, others after 40 years fondly look back at that blind date with gratitude.
If it’s deeply embedded in your values and virtues to not online date and it goes against your soul’s truth… By no means am I asking you to go against your heart 😉 However if you’d be willing to consider a different point of view… you might find that the Universe has an easier time bringing an ideal compatible romantic partner to you through the vehicle of online dating. You might find who you become navigating new waters is an even more confident alive person!
What if you started by considering that online dating was no better or worse than any other form of meeting an ideal partner?
What if you considered that the dangers were no greater or less than any other form of dating?
What if you even decided that it’s OK if it still feels a little taboo… It might make you feel a little naughty! Fun! xox
What if you decided that you were willing to do whatever it took to meet your beloved, even online dating?
What if you decided you were going to enjoy the journey no matter what or how it unfolds?
What if you simply need a little support writing a profile, getting feedback on what photos to use, and how to navigate safely emailing perspective dates, how to move from texting to a phone call, and from a phone call to a coffee date or drink and beyond?
What if you simply needed a little support in trusting your intuition and potentially healing some wounds in your heart so you could trust your instincts and allow yourself to open to an emotionally healthy hot intimate partnership?
I sense behind your question is a desire for a soul shaking conscious partnership that contributes to your life, yes? That’s such a beautiful desire 🙂
And is it possible that you’re focusing more on reasons not to get out there than the actual fear of being hurt again?
I get it 😉
And honor you no matter what.
I would be honored to speak with you personally about the possibility of supporting you and your dating journey, healing any wounds, releasing anything from the past, and truly celebrating the process of dating and relationship!
If this is strongly of interest to you and you’re ready for a coach and healer such as myself to sit in the fire with you, and then walk beside you through the finish line… please apply for a complementary Find Your Perfect Mate Strategy Session with me at www.allanapratt.com/connect.
Imagine looking back and celebrating your courage as you gratefully fall asleep and wake up beside your ideal partner?
It’s totally possible and happens to my clients all the time.
It all begins with one step.
Looking forward to hearing from you, blessings, Allana
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