
In this modern world, love is easy but hard to carry forever.
Everyone talks about connection—few talk about commitments.
And… If you are one of those few who truly like someone follow this five-step…
1. Begin with purity and intentionally
The foundation of a relationship is pure intention.
It really matters why you are choosing the person. You should look at their character, value, and relationship with God and people. If good… Begin with purity and intentionality to pursue marriage, not a modern casual affair with no destination.
Purity is not perfection — it’s clarity of intention.
2. Involve family early
This is the place most people make a mistake; many start with good intentions but hide their relationship, and that’s where emotional gambling begins.
The moment you hide love, you start losing its truth.
If you truly like the person, be ready for a lifetime; first, involve yourself and respectfully approach their family.
If everything goes well arrange a supervisor meeting.
3. Supervisor meeting
It doesn’t mean family interrogation.
Not a heavy pressure.
It’s a healthy meeting in a respectful manner with family. Share your likes, dislikes, vision of marriage, and thoughts about life, and also ask about them.
Share your love by looking respectful.
Feel free to ask for another meeting.
4. Safe communication
Protect your heart and protect your dignity.
If you need to, you can continue the conversation but with a boundary. So many people cross emotional lines and share photos and videos.
And sometimes it breaks too loudly; later they wish they hadn’t. Maintain a boundary with family (siblings or parents).
If the person is serious about you, they will respect it.
5. Get married
All of this, if you feel more confident or comfortable or at peace, and also ask the person. If yes, talk to both families and get married. Make it easy. Make it beautiful.
Marriage is not the final step. Marriage is the honest beginning.
If you feel something is wrong be honest.
Move respectfully
Every beautiful thing is not good for you.
After all of those meetings or communication, if you and the person doesn’t feel good, stop looking forward… Be honest and move respectfully and maintain the distances.
Keep on the purity for the next intentional move.
Story idea takes from Yt video.
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