How Do You Get The HOT Woman At Work To Notice You? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt Says Less Is More…
Question: There is this woman at my job that is intoxicating. The problem – she hates me! I have no idea why but she is completely disgusted by me and won’t even give me the time of day. We have never interacted so I am assuming someone said something about me to her. How can I get her to get to know me?
Answer: Love, I can’t imagine a woman is DISGUSTED by you! The only time I’ve seen that happen is when the man is really coming on too strong and deep down she’s frightened, and outwardly becomes emasculating, bitchy or rude.
Is it possible that you have so much sexual desire for her that you’re pushing her away? That you could embrace the “Less is More” model and pull back into your center… knowing you don’t NEED her for your ‘enough-ness’ and give her some space. Be more curious, complementary and authentic in approaching her?
Let’s be careful not to assume the worst or go into conclusion about “someone said something about me to her.” Let’s not blame or give away our power and instead ask, What could I do different so that I could connect authentically with this person? Who am I being that is pushing her away? What would it take to be unattached yet curious?
I LOVE your passion that she is intoxicating and yet it seems you’re coming on a bit strong and you’re getting the opposite result that you desire. What if you took a breather, stayed home one night, grab a beer at sunset and read my www.GetHerToSayYes.com report that might shed a light on why you’re potentially pushing your energy onto her, which is making her pull away. By the time the sun sets, your beer is done and the report is read, I hope you’ve discovered what’s up on the inside of you, that’s creating these results in your outside world.
Should you discover that there’s a part of you that requires healing from a past breakup such as your wounded heart, thats turned you into a well meaning guy who tries-too-hard, reach out to my [email protected] and let’s set up a Find Your Perfect Mate Strategy Session to dissolve what’s pushing gorgeous women away so you can have a hot healthy intimate partnership, yes? Huge love, Allana xoox