The other day, when discussing the Colin Kaepernick controversy I had a controversial and yet painfully obvious thought. At least, it seemed painfully obvious at that time and in that conversation:
“There is a word for it when you have that ‘gut feeling’ that causes you to take a position that a black man exercising his First Amendment right to protest is somehow offensive to you.
That gut feeling is called racism.”
In the conversation that preceded this insight, it wasn’t merely that someone had advanced the thought that there was something wrong with protesting. It was the opinion – unsupported by any fact – that Colin Kaepernick was somehow not to be trusted. That lack of trust is created—by our society, culture and media—and is the basis of systemic racism.
Our Presidential Election has caused me to take a look at whether that same dynamic holds true with women and sexism?
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People don’t really have any facts about why Hillary Clinton is untrustworthy.
In fact, nothing she has done is really even close to what every other President, Congressman, or Secretary of State before her had done.
Every other (male) President has made mistakes, made bad decisions, lied, changed course, or done things that were outright criminal. For example, this meme-like post that is making the rounds on social media today:

It’s the nature of the beast—the nature of being an imperfect human in a job that thrusts you into the limelight and demands you make difficult decisions based on imperfect information every day for years on end.
And yet there are a lot of otherwise liberal people (and, of course, plenty of conservatives) who are buying the into the idea that Hillary Clinton is somehow more dishonest—or worse, has committed actual crimes. But this idea doesn’t come out with proven facts, it is often expressed like this: “There’s just something about Hillary I don’t like.” or “I just don’t trust her.”
Now why would that be?
There’s a word for it, my friends, and the word is ‘sexism.’
For the record, I’m not saying that EVERYONE who doesn’t support Hillary Clinton is a sexist or misogynist. There are valid reasons why she may, as a candidate, not be your choice. For example, her hawkishness, her being relatively center of left, her close ties to Wall Street. But what I am saying is this: if your reason is “I just have this feeling about her” or you are accepting the oft-repeated but factually unsupported “untrustworthy” trope, that “feeling” is one you should be examining.
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Now, I’m certainly not the first to come up with this theory.
A great summary of others’ more factual investigations into this theory can be found here.
For example, as the above-linked Daily Kos piece, which has the catchy title of “The Most Thorough, Profound and Moving Defense of Hillary Clinton I Have Ever Seen,” recounts:
Politifact, the Pulitzer prize-winning fact-checking project, determined for example that Hillary was actually the most truthful candidate (of either Party) in the 2016 election season. And in general Politifact has determined that Hillary is more honest than most (but not all) politicians they have tracked over the years.
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Jill Abramson, a former reporter for the Wall Street Journal as well as former Executive Editor of the New York Times, had this to say about Hillary’s honesty: “As an editor I’ve launched investigations into her business dealings, her fundraising, her foundation and her marriage. As a reporter my stories stretch back to Whitewater. I’m not a favorite in Hillaryland. That makes what I want to say next surprising. Hillary Clinton is fundamentally honest and trustworthy.”
The same piece also recognizes the serious impediments that our sexism-based theory faces:
“1) Almost nobody will admit to it. Conservatives decided long ago that all such accusations (sexism, racism, homophobia, etc) are standard liberal bullshit whose only real intent is to shut down debate, and liberals tend to possess a sense of moral entitlement which leads them to consider themselves automatically exempt from all such accusations. (Side note: if you did roll your eyes above, there’s a good chance I’m describing you here. Sorry.)
2) Overt sexism is significantly more likely to be tolerated in our society than overt racism. It is a low-risk form of bigotry and discrimination that rarely damages professional or political careers. Because of this, far fewer people worry about crossing that line.
3) We have formed a sort of collective blindness to sexism that allows us to pretend that we are on top of the issue while simultaneously ignoring the many ways in which it actually permeates our society. (Side note 2: There’s a reason it’s called a “glass” ceiling.)
4) Unlike men, women who make demands are still often seen as unfeminine and inappropriately aggressive, bordering on deviant. And if the people most aggressively pushing against the glass ceiling are “broken” or “deviant”, it’s easier to justify dismissing both them and their concerns.”
All true.
But let yourself go a little. Get a little more fact-y than we’re used to these days. And tell me what your gut tells you.
Doesn’t it make a lot of sense?
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I thought this was a brilliant piece, Michael. Fair, nuanced, and simply common sense if you ask me. Thanks for representing NJ so well, too.
So, basically, you’re saying, she would be the lesser of the two evils? Still evil. but not as evil as the other guy? Really? SMDH!!!
Military Vet with service in the DIA, none of the reasons I dont trust her have to do with her anatomy, no more than I dont care for the current Lenin plagerist in office ~ my ire against him is nothing to do with race…..and wait for it – I didnt care for George W either.
Clinton in her own words about her qualifications.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jb1MB92sTzY
No sexism there because it favors women, right?
Sounds like the same argument I hear for excusing women who commit DV. She hit him, but he hit her back harder so she never hit him in the first place. She’s a liar, but he lies more so she’s always telling the truth. She’s a liar, but he tells more serious lies (of course there is never bias there) so she’s always telling the truth. That whole Colin Kaepernick thing was caused because people started worrying about his arm strength and there was legitimate speculation as to whether he would even make the team. That’s why his motives were… Read more »
“People don’t really have any facts about why Hillary Clinton is untrustworthy. In fact, nothing she has done is really even close to what every other President, Congressman, or Secretary of State before her had done.” These two sentences are complete lies. Your liberal bias will not permit you to see the truth. The woman is a two face, double talking, double dealing liar, period. Yes, most politician do lie and/or shade the truth or as they like to say in Washington “are less than forthcoming.” But Hillary Clinton will tell a lie when the truth will suffice!! Hillary Clinton… Read more »
I’m not saying that there are not valid reasons not to like her and that if you don’t like her it means you are sexist. What I’m saying is that there is a large swath of people “with a feeling” that may – in part – by motivated by her being a woman. What I’m also saying is that it could be that part of what we perceive as “lack of charisma” might have something to do with the fact that she’s a tough, ‘type A’ woman, and a woman who has had to operate in what is largely a… Read more »
Her supporters “shade the truth” as much as Clinton. I was told to read her comments concerning her vote to authorize the Iraq invasion. No where did I see her state that she understood that it would destabilize the region. That was the primary reason George H. W. Bush didn’t remove Saddam. That was the big reason why most people were against it. Saddam possessing WMDs would have made the situation we’re in better, how? It may actually be far worse as ISIS may have them. Yet, I’m supposed to believe that her statements mean that her judgement is actually… Read more »
Admitting to the presence of sexism or racism or privilege in how we perceive the world isn’t labeling anyone as some evil asshole. It’s just science. We humans all do it, and the more we are aware of it, as hard as that is, the better we are off. In my opinion.
Dude you are full of shit.
Trying to equate the suffering of my parents under Jim Crow in rural GA to some highly educated liar who is white, female, millionaire, and privileged is an insult.
People don’t like this damn woman for the same reason they don’t like Mr. Trump: lot’s of flaws. Does not have jack shit to do with sexism.
Too bad you cannot see the trees for the forest.
@ Michael Kasdan
And did you pause to think that that may not be were the sexism comes in. It might very well be the fact that people are willing to excuse or mitigate her lies and bad judgements, which they wouldn’t do for a man, COULD be were this is coming from.
Sorry John but if we are going to have a conversation around sexism, I need point out the sexism in the statement that men don’t get away with lying but women do. Men get away with lying all the time. Especially, socially connected powerful men. From all the people who knew what Sandusky was doing to little boys, to Bill Clinton who lied to America but people still loved him, to men like Trump who are huge liars themselves. Yet we don’t spend as much time talking about these things and we do hold women up to a higher moral… Read more »
Head of the FBI literally said “if anyone else had done this (mishandled the emails) they would be in serious trouble right now.”
You pointing out what other politicians have gotten away with is unconvincing. I’m of the opinion they should ALL have been punished, rather than that their digressions somehow make Clinton innocent
“Literally?” Really? What he literally said (actually) was: “In looking back at our investigations into mishandling or removal of classified information, we cannot find a case that would support bringing criminal charges on these facts.” https://www.fbi.gov/news/pressrel/press-releases/statement-by-fbi-director-james-b-comey-on-the-investigation-of-secretary-hillary-clinton2019s-use-of-a-personal-e-mail-system
I was extremely fact based in my reply- the moderator nuked it. In summary- you can’t keep labeling everyone who disagrees with you; it’s a weak way to deal with dispute, prevents any fruitful discussion, and waters down words that should mean something. Second- politifact is crap for comparatives (selection and rating are both completely subjective.). Third, if all you’ve got is “my candidate isn’t as bad as yours” you’ve got a major problem. Finally, Daily Kos is about on the Breitbart level of credibility. Trump and Clinton are both incredibly BAD candidates with poor character and indefensible policy ideas.… Read more »
My gut tells me that OJ Simpson brutally murdered his ex-wife. My gut tells me that his lawyers, by controlling the public narrative of his case, as being about the LAPD persecuting a Black man, rather than about the factual evidence of the case, allowed a murderer to go free. Regardless of the overwhelming evidence that Ms. Clinton has committed multiple crimes, it is an absolute fact that she has not been arrested for anything. She is an innocent person. Anyone who says she is guilty of anything is wrong. My gut tells me that if Ms. Clinton might be… Read more »
Mrs Clinton is not innocent. She has just not been found guilty. Two different things.
Here’s an EASY thought experiment to see if your issues are based on unconscious or unacknowledged sexism.
Imagine if you could rub a genie’s lamp and replace Hillary with Elizabeth Warren. NOW how do you feel about voting?
All of my personal reluctance would VANISH instantly. Whatever my issues with Hillary are about, sexism has NOTHING to do with it.
Check and mate.
Or any other woman who holds policy positions close to your own.
You’re 100% right- this trend of condemning dissent without understanding it is scary. Did you see the post of the day about “re-educating” Trump supporters once Clinton wins the election?
The anger of many Trump supporters disturbs me but so does the heavy handedness of the mindsets on display in many of the articles here.
http://www.mediaite.com/online/elizabeth-warren-on-warren-buffett-calling-her-angry-should-i-smile-more-at-banks/
Irrelevant. First because the poster above told you he’d vote for Elizabeth Warren which you haven’t responded to. His “check mate” is right on. Secondly, you can toss “sexism” out all you want but it doesn’t change the fact that Buffett is 100% right. Read up a little on anger in leadership- you cannot open with it without dooming the discussion. Elizabeth Warren’s approach has alienated many people whose cooperation is required if she wants to bring back Glass-Stegall (aka break up banks). She’s grandstanding and its counterproductive. I know first hand you can have a conversation about these subjects… Read more »
And where do get the idea that trump is a crook? . Just a feeling? I’ve never heard one commentary on illegal doings he’s done.
Sexism my backside. She’s been embroiled in so much junk that normal people don’t see once in their lifetimes.
Some feel Clinton is somehow ‘dishonest’ Is she still being victimised for good old Bill and his sneaky moves? Is it the feeling that somehow a woman shouldn’t ever lie, as she would be lieing to … a man. Can’t have that. When you consider the alternative, Trump is ‘more dishonest’. Trump clearly is a bare faced liar. A four time bankrupt who took lots of small business people down (yet kept enough stash to start again, and again.) Hilary stood by her husband in the glare of publicity and humiliation generated on an international scale. She doesn’t throw the… Read more »
Corruption isn’t a zero sum game. You don’t become somehow less dishonest just because your opponent is an even bigger liar than you