Celebrating a decade of marriage is a milestone filled with joy and reflection.
You’d imagine it would be all hearts and flowers, right?
Well, let me tell you, our day began with an unexpected argument.
Yes, you heard correctly — an argument.
And no, it wasn’t over anything significant or consequential. Just one of those trivial squabbles where you end up resembling cross-eyed cartoon characters.
Of all days to pick a fight, we chose our anniversary!
But you know what? That’s just us being us, comfortable in our imperfections, without any pretence or facade. We embrace our vulnerabilities.
So, amidst our “great debate,” he pulled out a little pocket card I had given him years ago. It was well-worn and he confessed he keeps it in his wallet.
The card read:
“Marriage is a Promise of Love.
Marriage is a commitment to life — to the best that two people can find and bring out in each other.
It offers opportunities for sharing and growth no other human relationship can equal.
A wife and husband are each other’s best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener, and critic.
Marriage is a promise, a potential, made in the hearts of two people who love, which takes a lifetime to fulfill.”
As I recalled the sentiment, the atmosphere shifted.
Smart man.
What can I say?
I love him to the moon and back.
Arguments will arise, even on special days. That’s life with a pinch of humour and a sprinkle of love.
And he did cook me dinner.
In these small gestures, he reveals the depth of his love. By cooking me dinner, though he rarely does, he showed that love is not in grand declarations but in the quiet, heartfelt actions that speak volumes.
The rose in the wine glass and the candlelight on the table were more than just decorations; they were symbols of his unwavering commitment and affection.
In that moment, surrounded by his thoughtfulness, I felt cherished beyond words.
This is the essence of human connection.
It’s that silent bond that goes beyond words, showing deep feelings through just being there, understanding, and a gentle hand.
Life and love are like a detailed tapestry, full of highs and lows, arguments and make-ups, sad times and happy bursts.
In these moments, we see the true nature of people and the deep connections we share.
Thanks for reading dear friends ღ … and husbands take note 🙂
© Stephanie Roberts
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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