When I was a teenager, I used to sit in front of my house to speak with my neighbor and friend JS. We talked about the girls we liked, their qualities, and what they were attracted to, as well as the opportunities and limitations we had to win over those girls.
Time passed and we tried everything within our power to achieve our goals, failing in most cases. That didn’t feel good at all.
As an adult, we understood that what happened to us was a natural process in the development of man. The raging hormones, the girls noticing the boys who were older than us, among other things.
That helped me shape part of my character and, depending on how one handles this process and the surrounding environment in which it happens, it results in the man you are today.
I dedicated myself to analyzing what I needed to do to become more attractive.
Do I tell you the best? It worked for me and that is why today I share my learning with you.
Reading, analyzing women’s behavior, and scrutinizing the scientific aspects of attraction gave me the best results I could have ever gotten.
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The observation.
You must observe the pattern of those men who are considered attractive by women, those who always end up flirting with what they want. For me, it was essential to understand what other people who worked for them when they cast the net and caught the girl they were chasing.
Over time, I was able to put together a whole puzzle that made me elevate my personality and gave me the pass to the big leagues.
Here I am going to leave you 8 fundamental aspects that will make you very attractive, reducing the rejection gap when you go after your goal.
1. Self-confidence:
You must give a twist to your insecurities, it is one of the questions that will hinder you from being attractive. Women perceive it from a distance and that it is a self-sabotage that comes from within you and that you can control by yourself or with professional help.
The following steps will help you trust yourself and raise your self-esteem.
2. Exercise:
Exercising will promote well-being in your mental and physical health. When you stand in front of the mirror and you can see how little by little your muscles are increasing and your fat is going away, it gives you confidence.
One of the things I observed is that most men who exercised were more likely to hook up with the girl they dated. Likewise, it was easier for them to obtain a telephone number, a first approach, and the rejection rate was lower.
I’m not talking about seeing yourself as a bodybuilder; I mean having an athletic body, which will increase your self-esteem, resulting in you becoming more confident in yourself and they notice it even with a glance.
Here is a video of Hamza Ahmed that could be very helpful to you.
2.1 You can’t leave aside exercising your mind:
Read and have meaningful conversations, you must read, just as you do now. Look for information on interesting topics of conversation, general culture, history, and avant-garde topics. Silence is a bad sign when developing a conversation and makes you look ordinary.
3. Self-care:
It goes hand in hand with exercises, but this time it is deeper.
You should be neat, with a good fragrance, relaxed, with your hair neat, and hands and nails clean.
Studies have shown that women pay a lot of attention to your hands, butt, back, and chest, as well as your appearance in general.
Smells are directly associated with neurological reactions that reduce anxiety and generate confidence.
They have their tricks too, look at this.
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I remember hearing a girl talk to another in which she told her that the first thing she saw in the man were his hands and shoes, she said that that gave her an understanding of what the man was like.
4. Grow a beard:
Our primitive part of the brain is still there and sends its signals from time to time.
Most women will gravitate toward the man who has several days’ growth of beard or a full, well-groomed beard than the one who doesn’t.
If you are one of those who don’t grow, search Google for tricks to solve it.
(A teenager-style three-haired mustache doesn’t make you look attractive, work on it.)
5. Sense of humor.
You shouldn’t confuse being funny with being rude.
Making them laugh lowers tension, relaxes the atmosphere, makes the interaction more pleasant, and creates a connection.
6. Authenticity.
While it is true that there are fundamental axes that will increase your opportunities and make you more attractive, it is no less true that you must place a personal label on your product.
Being authentic is underrated. If you have aspects of your personality that you need to work on, do it, but there are elements encoded in your DNA that make you unique, learn to exploit them to your advantage, don’t be common.
7. Dress well.
This does not mean that you must spend your salary on designer clothes or extravagant brands.
Your clothes should match your body and circumstances. You shouldn’t look like your mom dressed you up or like you’re wearing the shirt Grandpa wore on his 21st birthday.
Wear appropriate clothing for the occasion. You must understand that there are diverse and broad tastes, so you will be obliged to identify the segment of women that you want to appear attractive and wear outfits in that line.
Do you want to attract businesswomen? Wear clothes that make you look interesting and like a businessman.
Do you want to attract women to the gym? You should wear appropriate, well-fitting clothing. Forget those promotional t-shirts, that’s trash, holly shit.
Look at the big difference between wearing clothes that fit your body and size, versus wearing any garbage you find.
Fitting Clothes – Why Is It Important? – Art Of Style Club
You must have heard or been told to wear fitting clothes multiple times but WHY should you wear great fitting clothes…
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8. Listen.
God, this must be the open secret best handled by women. Being a good listener will give you advantages; it will make you look mature and sensible. Determined and patient.
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You should not be in a hurry to achieve your goals when it comes to women. You must be astute, consistent, balanced, and observant.
This guide will help you be an attractive man, regardless of what your goal is. I’m sure it will be very useful to you.
Let’s do it.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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