How to Create a Top 10% Male Dating Profile

We’ve all heard how much men struggle with online dating today, and it’s true. The vast majority of male profiles get completely ignored by women, while only an elite few receive genuine romantic or sexual interest.

Well, yours truly is one of that elite few. And, in this article, I’ll break down exactly what I’ve done on my profile and why, so you can do it too.

You ready?!

Here come the pain’

Your Looks Aren’t Important

The first thing someone might say when looking at my profile is that I’m a good-looking man. And that’s true, but just so we’re clear it’s nowhere near the most important thing.

As a man, your looks are actually the least powerful weapon in your sexual arsenal.

Here’s a framework I’ve put together from years of experience:

A man’s Sexual Marketplace Value (SMV) can be thought of aS comprising a maximum of 100 points, broken down for your black ass like this:

0 – 25 points: Wealth

0 – 35 points: Social status

0 – 15 points: Looks

0 – 25 points: Personality

Any man scoring 75+ is VERY attractive to women

Also, notice how looks are worth the least. They’re nice to have but not the be-all and end-all.

So, your goal with your dating profile is simple: imply that you score highly in all four areas. And if you don’t in real life, level yourself up until you do.

Anyway, let’s break down my profile.

Video of Me Laughing with a Beautiful Woman

This video shows me talking with a beautiful woman who’s laughing and clearly enjoying herself. It works on multiple levels:

• It implies I’m shooting content, which hints at an interesting lifestyle.
• The lighting and setting are beautiful, it looks cinematic.
• Her presence and body language suggest I’m someone women enjoy being around (a massive social proof indicator).
• I say something insightful about female nature which shows I understand women and have emotional intelligence.

Pro Tip:

Post a video of yourself with your female friends, laughing and vibing. Show potential matches that you’re someone women are comfortable around, not someone they’d rather be stranded with a bear in the woods than sit next to.

Picture of Me Using a MacBook in a High-End Bar

I always tell my clients: you’re not just the subject of the photo, you’re the whole mother freaking picture.

That includes the lighting, the background, your outfit, sny other subjects, their outfits, and even the mood.

Here’s what makes this shot powerful:

• The upscale location implies a desirable lifestyle.
• My outfit, the setting, and the MacBook subtly signal wealth and status.
• My calm, focused expression hints at masculine composure and sexual confidence (which 99.99% of women crave, whether they admit it or not).

Pro Tip:

Ditch the bedroom selfies. Get shots of you out in the world, doing things that resonate with who you are, especially in places you love.

Video of Me at a Photoshoot with a Model

This video is bold. It is risqué, mon amis. However, when yours truly added it to his profile, his matches went through the roof. Here’s why:

• The model is beautiful and physically affectionate, hashtag instant social proof.
• It signals that I’m surrounded by high-value women, which implies I’m high-value myself.
• The shoot is erotic but tasteful, revealing that my lifestyle is intriguing and unique.
• It also adds mystery: Why am I doing this shoot? What’s the story behind it?

Pro Tip:

Document yourself doing interesting things with interesting people. If your life has character, show it. Don’t just tell. Let women see what you’re all about.

Body Shot

I’ve got a topless shot, and here’s why it works without screaming “thirst trap”:

• It’s not a selfie. Someone else took it, which looks more intentional and less desperate.
• I’m outdoors, and the weather justifies the shirtless look.
• My body looks great, but it’s just part of the story.

Pro Tip:

If you’re in shape, don’t hide it. But don’t selfie it either. Let someone else shoot you in a context where it makes sense. Wear clothes that flatter you in the rest of your pics too.

Shot of Yours Truly on the Beach

This one’s a bit performative, I’ll admit, but it lands because:

• It’s beautiful. Great lighting, colors, and mood.
• It implies I travel (which is true) which also implies that the woman I end up with will experience that life too (which is also true).

Pro Tip:

Bust out your Paris, Rome, music festival, Tough Mudder, salsa class pics, whatever shows your depth. Give women a preview of the goddamn ride they’re signing up for.

If You’re Feeling Discouraged…

I get it. Some of this might feel out of reach right now. But don’t be discouraged.

Even if you don’t create a profile just like mine, you can still upgrade what you’ve got.

A 5 – 10% improvement could be the difference between staying single and meeting the mother of your children.

Use this article as a guide. Apply what you can. And if you want help creating a profile that truly reflects your value, book a call with moi here:

Now Let’s Talk About My Bio

While your photos are the most important part of your dating profile, your bio still matters a ton, and I get plenty of compliments on mine. Anyway, let’s break it down:

This line is funny, warm, and highly specific. It implies:

• I’m affectionate
• I care about comfort and closeness
• I’m playful, but with strong opinions

Then I hit them with the Lion King Line which humanizes me. It’s nostalgic, silly, over the top in a funny way, and creates an emotional anchor.

This is instantly intriguing. It’s bold, unique, and a little dangerous, which women love.

Referencing fictional couples like Bonnie & Clyde or James & Angela is a creative way of saying I want real love with fire, danger, and devotion.

My line about orgasms that bend the fabric of space and time? It filters out the prudish and attracts the adventurous, which is by design.

This hits a common pain point for high-value women: men who are intimidated by their greatness.

I flip that. I’m inspired by it.

Then I add:

“…who’ll never let you walk past him in a hallway without spanking your butt.”

Cheeky, playful, flirty. It sets the tone: “Yes, I’m your rock. But I’m also your mischief.”

This opens a window into my soul. It gives depth. It shows purpose, softness, and long-term vision.

Audio Recording About Me As A Fat Young Boy

In the voice prompt, I talk about being teased for being chubby as a kid. I keep it light, cheeky, and self-aware. It shows that:

• I have a sense of humour
• I’ve done inner work
• I don’t take myself too seriously
• And it also lets them hear my voice which makes me feel real and human.

Final Thoughts

This is how you build a goddamn mother freaking top 10% male dating profile.

However, like I said, even if you can’t replicate everything I’ve done, small changes can make a massive impact. Profile upgrades = better matches = better dates = possibly the love of your life.

Excelsior!

Kieren

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