If Average Guys Do THIS, They Can Enjoy An Elite Dating Life

I’m an average-looking guy earning an average amount of money.

But when it comes to dating, I’ve done it all.

Long-term relationships. Casual relationships. One night-stands. All with gorgeous women from various countries around the world.

Whatever you’re looking for in your romantic life, I’ve achieved it with alarming consistency.

And I put it all down to learning this ONE skill.

If you can find the resolve to learn it too, you can enjoy the same results.

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This skill will set you apart from other men

It’s so tough out there for average guys nowadays because the dating market has been globalised.

All the women in your city are being hit up by hundreds of men on Tinder, Instagram and whatever other app. These aren’t just the local men but guys from out of town as well.

Women are now overwhelmed with romantic options, meaning it’s tough for an average Joe to even get noticed.

Online, that is…

But the good news is: it has become easier than ever to stand out by approaching women in the real world.

Few guys seem to do this anymore. Maybe it’s the whole narrative surrounding #MeToo and toxic masculinity. Perhaps it’s that the latest generation of young men mostly grew up socialising on their phones.

Either way, this is your opportunity to stand out as a confident and charismatic man.

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Why it works so well

Approaching a woman in the real world puts you to the front of the queue for a woman’s attention. No need to worry about standing out in a crowded Tinder inbox.

You can also use your personality to charm her and build a stronger connection than is possible on an app. She gets to know you and see if there’s real-life chemistry, which is almost impossible online.

On top of that, it’s spontaneous and romantic. No woman is in a rush to boast about how she met her man on a dating app. The story of him spotting her in the real world makes for a much sweeter story.

A smooth approach can make a woman STOKED to meet you for a date. Yes, her hundreds of Tinder matches are still there. But they’re still strangers. They could be creepy or dangerous in real life. The connection you built in the real world counts for a lot in a woman’s eyes.

I know this because I have built an abundant dating life in several countries by doing it. Before that, I had no luck on dating apps at all.

This all assumes that you approach her in a smooth and respectful way, of course. That’s a big part of what I teach my clients as a men’s dating coach, but you can find success using this basic 3-step guide.

A Simple 3-Step Process To Approaching Women In Public
You can meet women ANYWHERE once you know how
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You might think this can’t work for you…

I have met a lot of women in bars and nightclubs, but not all men find this easy.

The truth is: you are still competing with a lot in these environments. Not just a lot of drunk men. You’ll also have to compete with the loud music, a woman’s friends, promoters trying to drag her into the VIP section. The list goes on…

But if you approach women in daytime environments like malls, busy streets or beaches, you don’t have to deal with these obstacles. Oftentimes, it’s just you and her enjoying a flirty chat. The biggest hurdle is finding the courage to do it.

When I was first pitched this idea, I didn’t believe it could work. I had never dreamed of flirting with a woman while sober, let alone in a shopping mall at 11:30 in the morning.

But it does work. And that 3-step guide is all you need to get started.

Sure, some women will have boyfriends. Others will be too busy to talk. But my response rate as a ‘beginner’ was astounding — and it only got better with practice. Soon enough, I was landing dates with the type of women who wouldn’t have looked twice at my Tinder profile.

As I said, courage will be your biggest obstacle. Some days, I didn’t have the balls to say ‘hi’ to anyone. But that won’t be your only problem. You’ll also need to find the self-belief to communicate that what you’re doing is completely awesome.

However you feel, the women you approach will feel. If you’re shaking with self-doubt, no-one will want to stop and talk to you. And that could easily happen if you’ve never tried to flirt with women while sober.

I’ve written a list of tips to help you get over these nerves. But my main advice is to throw yourself in the fire as soon as possible. Count backwards from 5 and walk towards that woman before 0. Show yourself that nothing terrible will happen — and that it might even be quite pleasant. The more you practice, the more normal this behavior becomes, the smoother your approaches will be.

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What do you have to lose?

Ultimately, you don’t have to follow this advice.

But if you’re an average guy relying on dating apps, the data suggests things can’t get much worse for you right now.

A lot of men are still finding partners at work, school or via mutual friends. But it can be a long wait for an opportunity in these spheres. When one finally pops up, it’s natural to become a little too desperate to make it work. And that’s when men creep women out.

It’s much healthier to choose your favorite partner from an abundance of options. This naturally curbs your neediness and makes it easier to pick a girlfriend who’s well suited to you. Better than settling for the first person who’ll have you, right?

Approaching women in the real world puts you back in control of your dating life. You’ll improve your social skills along the way. And it’s a hell of a lot more fun than swiping mindlessly on your smartphone screen.

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If you’re the type of guy who struggles to attract or keep a woman’s attention, my book Big Dick Energy will help you. It features 12 powerful exercises to help you unleash your confident masculine energy and attract amazing beautiful women. You can learn more by clicking here or watching the video below.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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