Maybe Yoda spent some time on our little planet, or maybe great minds think alike.
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“Do. Or do not. There is no try.” ~ Yoda (Star Wars: Episode V – The Empire Strikes Back)
I was a nine year old kid when I heard this 800 + year old, little green man, tell the hero, Luke Skywalker, whom I met 3 years earlier (yup at the ripe and impressionable young age of six) the facts of life.
Maybe Yoda paid a visit on Earth to Mr. Henry Ford who exclaimed, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.” Either way the fact remains, and it is a fact, whether on Dagobah or right here on Earth, that we are indeed the creation of what we do. Or what we do not.
The practice of taking action had been part of my leadership repertoire, since earlier than I can recall. I took action (and some may consider risk) when I saw a situation or opportunity arise. The difference between myself and others in similar roles, was that I took the initiative and did something. I made mistakes, I did the wrong things, I’ve been disciplined for those actions, and you know what kind of percentage those instances were, generally less than 10%, yup less than one out of 10 decisions, over time and experience.
In the beginning it was higher, I made more mistakes and I LEARNED from them. Yoda knew that. He knew that if Luke didn’t lift his ship out of the swamp, then he wouldn’t. There is no middle ground on inaction. Failure is the key in taking action, it is “The Force” that motivates us further until we do succeed. The actions and the mistakes are the “Do’s”, sitting on the sidelines are the “Do nots”, there are no ”Trys.” In business and in our personal lives, we all have a choice, the decisions that we make define our outcomes. If I write that book, I will be an author, If I think about it, I won’t be.
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Not only is it vital to lead ourselves forward by doing, but doing it being clearly purposed and with intent. That is what our journeys are about, learning from doing, pivoting, then doing again, honing in on our purpose. In retrospect I realize my eyes were opened and not only was there a fork in the road that I took, but yet another unseen path, I went that third way, to the stars and towards my goals. And that, my young Padawans, has made all of the difference.
Overcoming adversity has been a skill I've had since pre-conception. As my parents were told they would never have children, I fought my way into this world and have persevered, bringing success in whatever I put my mind to. After 25 years in business management, from small privately-owned companies to large corporate organizations, I've had some amazing accomplishments. I was able to consult, speak and teach with such prestigious organizations as Columbia University, the New York State Police and Wal-Mart Stores, to name a few.
In 2011, my family and I found ourselves homeless after Hurricane Irene. Losing most everything we owned, we came back and persevered to put our lives back together. The Chief Adversity Conqueror was born and so was www.youleadingyou.com
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Awesome post, Sean. A combination of taking action to fulfill your dreams and make world a better place.