Finding a good partner for ourselves is challenging, but not impossible.
Statistics have shown the following:
Your likelihood of finding a companion increases by 9% when you talk to individuals at pubs and clubs.
However, one of you might be too inebriated or too depressed after a failed promotion or a breakup to introduce yourself.
Your chances of finding love online increase by 17%.
If you’re able to avoid getting scammed or taken advantage of, that is. And if you do discover someone on the dating app who shares your objectives.
Traveling can also improve your chances of meeting someone.
While it might not be ideal to fall in love when on a short trip, some people are open to dating while they travel. 22% of POF’s respondents to a survey claimed to have found love while traveling.
Anywhere and at any time, love can happen.
The woman you seat next to on the plane can turn out to be the one for you without your knowledge or expectation. Therefore, if you still haven’t located anyone, you may be just looking in the incorrect locations.
Consider Joe’s experience, for instance:
“I never imagined being married again.”
Before he met Cristine, a 25-year-old Filipina, Joe, a 31-year-old American, had this impression. After what transpired in his previous marriage, he had reservations about finding love again. After all, it can be difficult to rebuild your trust after someone has betrayed it.
But that was before he went on a singles tour to Davao, Philippines, where he met Cristine as a tour companion. Despite having different nationalities and languages, there was instant chemistry.
She accepted Joe’s invitation to go out with him without hesitation for the remainder of his stay in the Philippines.
Joe claims that Cristine initially had no idea she would wed a foreigner. She was your typical woman. Not to mention that she was simply a guest of a friend when she joined the trip.
Cristine wasn’t planning on meeting anyone at the function. She had always thought that her future spouse would be a fellow citizen of the Philippines.
She decided to give Joe a chance after they spoke and got to know one another a little better. Today, they are happily married and the parents of a lovely family.
How to have a similar experience to theirs
You can surely meet someone worth dating if you put yourself out there. Here are some ways to improve your chances of meeting someone while on vacation or while traveling overseas to start: Consider going on a singles tour by yourself.
You can sign up for a Singles Tour if you want to meet people in the same way that Joe and Cristine did. By doing it in this manner, you may take advantage of two opportunities at once: you can take pleasure in your vacation while looking for love.
Some dating/matchmaking websites provide single tours where you can meet a lot of stunning women from the nations you are interested in visiting.
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These tours include city tours and social events.
You have the chance to interact with local women who are also looking for love at all events. By doing so, you may determine which people you get along with the best, learn more about them, and determine whether your relationship might develop.
The presence of translators and local professionals to assist and guide throughout the process ensures that language barriers never pose a problem during these events.
The beautiful thing about these gatherings is that there are expert matchmakers available to help you meet that possible companion. By the end of the day, you are essentially assured to have met the ideal match for you who has been carefully selected based on your preferences and profile.
The City tour makes up the other half of the Singles tour. This is your chance to tour and discover the nation of your choice. You will have plenty of time to explore the local culture and take in the breathtaking scenery. Not to mention, a woman of your choosing from past Social gatherings will be with you.
Are relationships built between tourists feasible on these tours?
You can fall in love with anyone, but typically we do so with those who match our preferences in terms of gender, sexual orientation, etc.
Therefore, the primary cause of falling in love is meeting someone who is reasonably appropriate and desirable to you and who shows that they like you.
The development of relationships on these tours is made easier by logical and physiological reasoning. To clarify: You will select the ideal woman for you based on your menu, in addition to the advice of the matchmakers present during these trips.
Singles tours give you the direct opportunity to spend time with the woman you choose, in contrast to other dating methods where gauging each other’s compatibility devolves into reading between the lines and flirting. Here, you can observe and gauge the viability of a potential romance.
You will likely become attracted to and fall in love with someone if they are someone you find to be reasonably attractive and desirable.
This is why combining a Singles tour with a City tour can help you find true love.
But can a relationship of this nature ever endure?
You can’t predict with certainty if you’ll have a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship. While some people who meet someone while traveling just have a fleeting fling, others can forge a strong, lasting connection.
The ability to find true love and a satisfying relationship depend more on you than it does on the other person or the circumstances of your meeting. Putting oneself out there demonstrates your courage and will to go above and beyond to attain your objectives.
You can have a long-lasting relationship if you put in the effort, have the patience, and keep an open mind to achieve it.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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