
‘Naturals’ attract women because they perform these smooth moves naturally.
By learning these moves, you can attract women just as frequently as them.
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1. Say Hi Without Hesitation
Naturals were brought up to feel supreme confidence around women. When they see a woman they like, they often assume the conversation will go well.
For that reason, they rarely hesitate to approach true babes.
This lack of hesitation is an honest signal of self-belief. It also prevents doubts from creeping into your mind.
The more you delay a daunting task, the more your brain talks you out of it. You don’t want that when your dream woman walks into the room.
So, if you can’t naturally approach women without hesitation, implement the ‘5 second rule’. It’s as simple as counting backwards from five and moving your feet towards her before you hit zero. For whatever reason, this trick makes it easier to take action.
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2. Teasing
Regular guys are afraid to tease women in case they lose them.
Naturals have too much of an abundance mindset to worry about that, plus they understand that teasing turns women on.
It shows that you’re comfortable in her presence and not afraid of losing her. It shocks women and makes them laugh, providing the emotional rollercoaster they crave.
It’s one of the most effective methods of flirting. Force yourself to do it if you have to.
The goal isn’t to hurt her feelings. It’s to raise the vibe with playful banter. Focus on topics that are obviously untrue and you’ll be fine.
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3. Self-Amusement
Naturals always know how to make themselves laugh.
You’ll notice they make jokes and bring up topics that make them feel good.
And, in most cases, other people get sucked in and have a great time in their presence.
This is the best way to make women like you. It’s a far better strategy than saying what you think they want to hear. That’s what people-pleasers do, but it’s incredibly seethrough and a massive turn-off.
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4. Leading
Naturals believe pushing a romance forward is a win-win. They’ll happily ask women on a date, arrange the date, make things physical, invite them to their place etc. Because they’re sure a woman wants that.
Regular guys tend to hesitate in all these moments because they don’t believe in themselves enough.
They’d rather wait for a ‘sign’ that a woman wants it to happen, but a lot of women aren’t comfortable giving these signs. They’d rather date a leader who was assertive enough to make things happen without being prompted.
This is something else you’ll need to force yourself to do if you’re nervous. If you push things forward too quickly, a woman will let you know, but that doesn’t mean you’ve blown your chance.
Taking too long to make a move is the bigger turn-off. You’ll either come across as not attracted to her or too afraid to show it.
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5. Getting Physical
Regular guys are often too scared to break the touch barrier. Naturals understand it’s about making small steps forward.
You can start with small innocent touches and measure a woman’s response. If she responds warmly, you can ramp it up to more daring and intimate touches. If you go too fast, STOP, take more time getting to know each other and try again later. It won’t ruin the date provided you do this.
But naturals don’t need me to describe it in that much depth. They just get it.
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6. Keeping The Mystery Alive
Women want their romances to be blockbuster movies. They want highs and lows. They don’t want guys to give away the ending.
If you make it too obvious that you’re into a woman, it often becomes too predictable for her. They’ll begin to feel easy for letting it happen.
Naturals understand this. That’s why they’ll always leave a bit of mystery in their interactions. Good flirting doesn’t give the whole game away.
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7. The Innocent Excuse
Women love sex, but they’re shamed for giving it away too easily.
Even if they desperately want to rip a man’s clothes off, they’ll turn down his invitation if it’s too overt.
A natural understands this too. So, he’ll give women an innocent reason to join him at his apartment. A movie. A nightcap. To meet his dog. Whatever.
Both partners might know that sex could happen, but this excuse allows a woman to save face. She can tell herself that ‘it just happened’ and not feel so easy afterwards.
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8. Making Her Feel Special
Naturals won’t make a woman feel too special too soon. They understand that ruins the mystery.
But they will take steps to help her feel like more than another notch on the bedpost.
They’ll tell the occasional vulnerable story. They’ll pepper in some unique compliments. They’ll make some time for cuddles after sex.
It’s a delicate balance to remain in the space between ‘nice guy’ and ‘f*ckboy’, but naturals find it effortless.
These tips should help you stay there too.
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