One reader commented about why he used to worry about not kissing the girl.
From sam, in response to Why I Didn’t Kiss the Girl by Tim Mousseau:
I used to worry about this because I’m not the boldest of men but then it occurred to me that if I am acting honestly and being myself (while respectful of the woman) and she does not like the way I am acting then I have done nothing wrong and it is not my responsibility to live up to the expectations of other people. If me not kissing her is going to be a problem then it is better to know that early on than to stress myself out trying to understand what I should do. If a woman likes being with me she will accept that I am a slow operator who is in no hurry to start rounding bases.
Why did you hesitate that one time? Or what made you decide to go for it? Comments welcome.
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