Help us to make a good decision about you; don’t put pressure on to us sleep with you right away.
Okay guys, here it is
We know our three-date rules and other forms of petty game-playing bore the pants off you. We get that these things do not result in a desire from you to commit to us.
We know that if you go to sleep at night wondering what we are doing, then you don’t really care that we didn’t ‘make you wait’.
Why waste our time?
If we haven’t shared enough experiences with you to be sure that you’re who we think you are – wasted time is what we risk.
You see, we wouldn’t be seeing you (never mind going to bed with you) if we didn’t suspect you just might be the most amazing, life-enhancing romantic relationship of our life. We wouldn’t waste the leg wax.
But having awesome sex with you means (because of our biology), that the quality of the information you are giving us about you is compromised. We just don’t do our best judging when you are making us feel all kinds of good.
Experience brings many benefits
We know you can’t wait to show us how attracted you are. But do you really want another uncertain, withholding woman on your hands? Give us a few different experiences with you (let’s do something new together!), so that we can assess your true qualities. Trust us, you’ll reap the rewards.
We know what we are looking for (and we know you do too). If you are being real with us, we will know fairly quickly whether you have them. So you won’t need to wait long before we get naked together, anyway.
Do that and we will give ourselves to you completely. Happily. If we don’t? Well then you get to trade us up for a more deserving focus of your attentions. And everybody wins.
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