Men frequently inquire as to why women don’t just tell them what they want, but where’s the fun in that? It’s a straightforward, visceral circumstance in which you give and take, you relish the chase, and we relish the running.
I mean, how exactly are you going to comprehend women when we sometimes do not comprehend what we want or do?
While some men occasionally, and I do mean occasionally, get their women, others are completely clueless and encounter pitfalls and fights every other day.
However, if you fall into the completely clueless category, don’t despair; we may have a lifeline for you. Continue reading to discover some important information about women:
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1. We don’t like to ask.
If your woman constantly asks for help with chores or reminds you to remember basic things, you’re in the fast lane to fighting the city.
Any woman will tell you that their man is caring because they don’t forget the things that tick them. A thoughtful man is everything. That’s it!
2. We are never satisfied.
So it is pointless to constantly inquire about our dietary requirements. Yes! The response will always be “Yes, we want food,” but don’t force us to lie about it.
If you must inquire about food, inquire about our preferences; that is a conversation we will gladly engage in.
3. We like bad boys but love decent men.
Yes, we may send mixed signals, but trust me when I say that no girl wants to settle for a guy with tattoos covering his knees and sagging his pants. The problem is that bad boys are always going to be hot, but a man, not a boy, is hotter.
In addition, a decent man improves the appearance; of your loved ones and friends.
4. We are just as passionate about sexual activity.
The idea that men are the only canal creatures is a myth. We, women, are just as good at hiding our lust and desire to escape as men are.
Give crazy a try before calling your girlfriend a prude or thinking she’s boring. You might be surprised.
5. When you say you know us but don’t.
It upsets us.
6. Believe it or not, women don’t dress for their men.
We don’t dress for you. You will continue to give your woman high-fives and boast that she looks fabulous, but that outfit wasn’t meant for you, dear.
She may be silently competing with someone you don’t know about, but she’s likely dressing to please herself, so you’re not important.
7. We don’t like stupid surprises.
The best way to give a woman a gift is to ask her. But if you have to surprise her, look at her screenshots. That folder probably contains the item for which she is dying!
Do you think you know your woman just because she says she loves your gifts and always compliments your efforts?
Women don’t like being spoiled, and, likely, they won’t like your gifts either.
Thanks for reading. You’re most welcome!
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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“Men frequently inquire as to why women don’t just tell them what they want, but where’s the fun in that? It’s a straightforward, visceral circumstance in which you ….” Whoa, stop right there! Where’s the fun in that? You find it fun to stump and mislead your man? This is a game … a game in which YOU are the controller and the man is the lab rat, running around trying this and that to make you happy, and often hitting a wall. Yes, that sounds like fun. Fun for one person at the expense of the other. So much… Read more »