The Human Centipede of Low Effort Affection

Anyone who knows me knows I make content for men. Not just to get laid, but to heal, to grow, to stop feeling like faeces for wanting connection and desire in a world that often treats them like they’re disposable unless they’re rich, ripped, or ruthless.

But today, I’m not just speaking to men.

I’m speaking for them.

And this post right here?

This one’s for every guy who’s ever been told to be grateful for scraps. For every man who’s been shamed for saying:

“I want more.”

For every dude who’s felt like he has to accept any woman who shows interest just because he should be lucky she even glanced in his direction.

This one’s for you, brother.

You ready?!

Here come the pain!

First things first. let’s get something straight:

Women Are Encouraged to Have Standards, And Rightly So

If you go online right now and ask a woman what she wants in a man, you’ll hear:

“I want him to be 6’2, emotionally intelligent, financially secure, funny, kind, masculine, well-groomed, and socially confident.”

And you know what?

Good for her. That’s her divine right as a sovereign and autonomous being.

However, should we then flip the proverbial script and have a man then say:

“I’d like a woman who’s fit, in shape, feminine, sweet, self-aware, and dresses like she values herself.”

Suddenly, he’s controlling.

Insecure.

Misogynistic.

Imbued with a deep and enduring hatred for the female gender rivalled only by the likes of Elliot Rodger and other incels.

Apparently, if a woman prefers men with six-figure salaries, it’s “having standards.”

However, if a man prefers a woman who takes care of her body and isn’t hostile toward the male gender, he’s a narcissist.

Nah. We’re not doing that today.

If Women Discern Over Things You Can’t Control, You Can Discern Over Things They Can

Let me ask you this:

Ever had a Hinge match ask how tall you were then openly let you know you’re disqualified from dating her because you don’t meet the necessary height requirements?

Ever been told to your face that you weren’t tall enough, rich enough, cool enough, or confident enough? Even though said things weren’t always within your control?

Of course you have. Welcome to the world of men.

And again, women are allowed to do that. They’re allowed to have preferences. They’re allowed to be selective. They’re allowed to choose the kind of man that makes them feel alive, safe, and sexy.

Like I said before, it’s their right to do so. I’d never argue that they shouldn’t be allowed to make whatever choices they want. I’m a firm believer in both freedom of thought and speech so yes, women are totally allowed to have whatever standards they want.

But here’s what they’re not allowed to do:

Tell you that you’re shallow or evil for wanting the same thing in return.

You have just as much right to want a woman who turns you on, brings you peace, and aligns with your values as she has to want a man who can pay for dinner and open a stiff cookie jar while being at least 3 inches taller than her when wearing heels.

So stop settling.

Stop dating women who drain your soul just because they gave you attention.

Stop acting like the rear end of the human centipede of low-effort affection.

Looks Matter & It’s Not Just Vanity

Here’s a truth no one wants to say out loud: physical attraction matters.

But this isn’t about being some soulless Hugh Hefner clone who appraises women purely on ass-to-waist ratio.

No.

This is about respect.

Because being beautiful isn’t just about aesthetics. but how someone values and treats themselves.

A woman who looks after her body, her skin, her hair, and her clothes is telling the world something. She’s literally saying:

“I value this vessel. I care for myself. I want to feel good and look good. I have self respect.”

Why is that such a bad thing to want in a partner?

If a woman has a rundown house with rotting floorboards, smashed windows, and black mold entering the lungs of all who breathe its festering air, nobody praises her for “not being shallow and obsessed with looks.”

They ask:

“Why the fuck don’t you take care of where you live? Where’s your self respect?!’

Well guess what, meu amigo?

Your body is your soul’s home for your time on this earth. Is the only thing you truly own.

And when someone treats said home like garbage, it says something.

Now I’m not talking about medical conditions or natural aging. I’m talking about laziness. Apathy. Self resentment disguised as holier than thou morality.

Saying:

“I want a partner who takes pride in how she presents herself to the world.”

Is NOT evil.

It’s normal.

It’s human.

It’s your divine right.

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Attraction Isn’t Just Physical Anyway

You’re not just allowed to want physical health.

You’re allowed to want emotional health too.

You’re allowed to say no to the woman who rolls her eyes at you for having dreams.

You’re allowed to walk away from the one who weaponizes her tears.

You’re allowed to leave the dinner table when peace has been taken from the menu and replaced by anxiety, stress, and heartache.

You’re not obligated to date someone who gaslights you, disrespects you, or refuses to do any inner work because “men are the real problem.”

You’re allowed to want a woman who is nurturing. Feminine. Honest. Calm.

And whatever else you might desire.

Not just because it feels exquisite but because you’ve worked your ass off to become the kind of man who brings those same qualities to the table.

You go to the gym.

You do the inner work.

You read. You grow. You protect. You provide.

You’ve fought to become a king and don’t owe anyone your throne just because they batted their eyelashes your way.

Final Word: Standards Aren’t Evil, They’re Denote Self-Respect

If you’re reading this and thinking,

“But what if I’m being too picky?”

Ask yourself this:

Would you tell a woman to stop being picky because she wants a man who doesn’t live in his mom’s basement?

Exactly.

So why is it wrong for you to want a woman who takes care of her health, works on her emotional stability, and doesn’t treat you like a backup plan?

It’s not.

Having standards isn’t cruel.

It’s not toxic.

It’s not shallow.

It’s proof that you love yourself enough not to settle for someone who doesn’t love themselves.

So next time someone calls you insecure for wanting more?

Look them dead in the eye and say:

“No, I just respect myself.”

Then walk away like a goddamn king.

Ciao for now.

Excelsior!

If you got value from this you’ll love my upcoming book The Primal Gentleman. It’s loaded with value that will show you how to become the kind of man who loves life on his own terms and forges great connections with quality women. Go here to join the waiting list, get a free dating download and be notified when it’s released.