Missing someone is akin to a gentle tug at one’s heartstrings, a sentiment that can inadvertently linger.
This overwhelming yearning has the power to ensnare individuals, making it challenging for them to extricate themselves.
In your heart, eyes, and mind, echoes and shadows of each other abound.
Especially when a woman yearns for someone, she tends to reveal her emotions subtly. The most conspicuous indicators include the following habits.
01 Frequent Topic Initiation and Enthusiastic Chats
When a woman misses someone, her innate shyness may hinder direct expression. However, the desire to draw closer and the courage derived from affection often lead her to break free from reservations.
After a prolonged absence, she sheds her inhibitions, actively initiates conversations, creates opportunities, and endeavors to get closer to you.
An emotional expert notes, “Taking the initiative to chat is the best way for a woman to strengthen a relationship when she has feelings for you.”
Whether it’s the scenery on her way home from work, the delightful food she sampled, occasional life hurdles, joyous moods, or somber thoughts, she yearns to share it all with you.
Initiating seemingly casual greetings like “Are you there?” or “What are you doing?” are, in essence, expressions of “I miss you.”
Gradually, these signs of affection emerge, weaving a subtle and lingering love in the fabric of your care and consideration. She eagerly discusses any topic with you, eagerly awaiting your response.
Engaging in conversation with you when idle, her heart inches closer to yours through frequent interactions, fostering affection and silently expressing her commitment.
Individuals who proactively reach out and disturb you frequently are harboring hidden affection and longing.
02 Frequent Accommodations and a Desire for Presence
In relationships, the emotion of longing is irresistible. Alongside profound thoughts and tender concerns, one becomes more tolerant and yearns for a complete sense of presence in the presence of a loved one.
When a woman falls deeply in love, she curtails her whims for you, suppresses her temper, and conscientiously accommodates your needs. You shine in her eyes, and she aspires to shine in your presence.
If work keeps you busy, and you occasionally overlook her, she responds with considerate understanding. If you arrive late to a meeting, she sympathizes with your hectic schedule. The joy of meeting you surpasses any inconvenience.
Loving someone entails giving away a lifetime’s worth of tenderness, yet it never feels sufficient. It’s not because you are exceptional, but because you make her heart race, prompting her willingness to accommodate and wait.
As the saying goes, “When someone likes another person, they can’t help but pay and treat them unconditionally, simply wanting their happiness.”
Her tenderness, kindness, and patience aim for you to perceive her warmth, hold her in your heart, and reciprocate her feelings.
Love stems from the heart, and actions follow when the heart is moved. However, in pursuing love, one must uphold personal principles and boundaries. Never compromise or seek love in a demeaning manner.
A healthy relationship thrives on mutual happiness, understanding, and reciprocity.
03 Frequent Presence and a Desire to Be Near You
Adult love sheds its youthful shyness. When a woman encounters the right person, an intense desire to be with them takes hold.
With a heart pounding uncontrollably, she eagerly anticipates meeting you, even if the excuse is mundane. Simply conversing with you brings immense joy, and she wishes for time spent together to linger.
This love mirrors the sentiments expressed in “The Little Prince”: “If you come at four o’clock in the afternoon, I will begin to feel happy from three o’clock onwards. The closer the time, the happier I become.”
Similarly, “Fortress Besieged” notes, “Meetings are addictive. Scheduling one makes the days before and after shine and become good days.”
Frequent visits are her way of alleviating the long-standing yearning, expressing her deep longing for you.
If your feelings align, reciprocate her enthusiasm, draw closer to her, and let her experience your affectionate love.
In the vast sea of humanity, encountering someone who truly loves you is a rarity. Cherish that person; don’t let them slip away.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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